Here are 4 fun femdom fetishes for wife led relationships!
Do you ever feel yourself slipping into the same old sex routine?
Let’s be honest, vanilla sex can become boring after a while. You can only do the same old tricks so many times before it gets boring.
That’s why so many couples begin to cheat within a few years of marriage (despite the fact that chastity is a super quick fix).
However, things are much different when you incorporate female domination (femdom) into your sex life. There are so many activities to do that it is nearly impossible to get bored.
That’s why it is important to play around with different fetishes and see what both couples like.
Many submissive guys naturally have a ton of fetishes, so exploring them can be a ton of fun.
Check out these hot femdom fetishes for wife led relationships. Your sex life will never be the same 🙂
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1. Foot fetish and submission
A foot fetish is actually one of the most common fetishes out there. It is so popular that many well-known celebrities have them including Quentin Tarantino.
What is a foot fetish? It’s when a guy likes feet. It can take many forms. Some guys like to suck on your toes (trust me, it feels GREAT).
Others like the smell of the female foot–you’d be surprised at the amount of pheromones your feet have!
And some guys even love getting footjobs.
A footjob is basically what it sounds like…stroking his cock with your feet. It feels great and any guy with a foot fetish will REALLY appreciate it.
Here’s an idea: have him kneel down and massage your feet after a long day. If he does a good job, let him suck on your toes or maybe even reward him with a footjob 🙂
There are a ton of footjob techniques out there, so I’ll probably get around to a post on that sooner or later.
P.S. check out this post for more fun foot fetish ideas!
2. Tease and denial
Tease and denial is a natural femdom activity. What could be more powerful and thrilling than controlling a man’s orgasm?
The beauty of tease and denial is that you can do it anywhere. It can be when he’s at work or tied down against the bed. Tease and denial is all about driving him to the edge of orgasm, but stopping short.
Why tease him so relentlessly? Because it’s so much fun! He’ll be begging to cum and your pussy will get wet denying him every single time.
In fact, the more you tease him the more powerful his orgasm will eventually be (if you let him cum)!
Did you know that the average couple only have sex for about 5.4 minutes at a time? What’s the fun in making it so short?
Sex should be much longer and enjoyable than 5 minutes. Erotic tease and denial is a really fun activity that can last hours or even days!
P.S. Chastity and tease & denial go hand in hand. Check out this post to see why you need chastity in your wife led marriage.
3. Male chastity
Chastity is absolutely one of our favorite sex life activities. It is another form of tease and denial that many femdom couples LOVE to enjoy.
Speaking from personal experience, chastity has saved more marriages than $300-an-hour Harvard therapists. If you really want to save your marriage or spice it up, consider chastity.
Make sure to pick out a reliable and high quality male chastity cage. It’s basically a cage for a man’s cock/balls that is supposed to prevent (or at least reduce) his ability to masturbate and cum.
I am a firm believer that male chastity is a beautiful thing. It requires a lot of trust between both partners and is very thrilling.
Once locked into chastity, he will be so much more docile and obedient. He knows the only way to get out is to please his keyholder (you!).
4. Ballbusting/CBT
Some couples like to incorporate a little pain into their sex life. Before you read further, know that consensual BDSM is not the same as abuse.
As long as it’s consensual and safe, there’s nothing wrong with it.
As crazy and shocking as it sounds, some guys love to be hit in the balls. Crazy, right? I mean it sounds insane, but it can be extremely erotic as well.
Guys love it because their gf/wife is hitting the symbol of their manhood. It can be a very emasculating and humiliating experience (which is exactly what they crave).
Every couple has a different way of incorporating ballbusting and cock and ball torture (CBT) into their sex life. Here are a few techniques to try out:
- Kicking: Kick with the top of your foot to connect with his balls. Don’t use your toes, you might injure them.
- Kneeing: Place your hands on his shoulders and knee his balls. Kneeing can be very powerful, so make sure to go extremely soft.
- Squeezing: This is more of a beginner’s technique because it is easy to control the pressure with your hands.
- Slapping: Slap his balls/cock with your hand. Remember, the balls will be a lot more sensitive than his head.
- Trampling: Trample/step on his cock/balls with your feet! Be sure to never put your full weight on his balls. His dick will be able to take much more punishment.
If a man has never been ballbusted before, he might not be able to take a lot of punishment. Always go very soft in the beginning. The idea is not to put him in the hospital, but to provide light erotic pain.
Remember to always have a safe word when engaging in these activities. When your partner signals the word or phrase, stop right away.
Final thoughts
The femdom lifestyle provides so many different activities that it’ll be hard to get bored in the bedroom again. These femdom fetishes for female led relationships will really spice things up.
Don’t be afraid to experiment around with these fetishes and activities. After that, you can pick and choose which one works best for both partners.