Looking for some fun femdom ideas to try in your female led relationship?
Well, this list will help guide you to create the kinkiest and best femdom scenarios to try with your partner.
There’s nothing quite like total power exchange and dominating your partner. That’s what makes it so much fun!
This blog post will cover:
- Kinky femdom ideas to introduce new kinks and fetishes to your FLR
- Femdom scenarios that’ll leave you both hot and heavy
- Femdom bondage ideas to experiment with
Ready?
Okay…here are the most try femdom scenario ideas from my devious little mind…
Contents
1. The ice bucket!
One of my favorite femdom ideas is tease and denial.
There are just so many things you can do like edging your slave over and over again while he is tied down to the bed.
BUT how do you stop an edging session?
Well, you can do things like stopping all stimulation or bringing in some pain like with candle wax.
However, one of my favorite ways is the ice bucket! I actually got this idea from a video I saw a few years ago so I can’t take all the credit for it!
But at the end of a nice and long (hopefully hours long) tease and denial session, take a bucket of ice and dump it all over your cuck’s hard cock.
Let the ice sit there on his cock and balls for 30 – 60 seconds.
After it’s all said and done, he should become soft and perfect to lock back in chastity!
And if an ice bucket isn’t your thing…consider making your slave hop in the shower to douse him with some ice cold water!
2. Anal play
I’m a BIG fan of anal play as it’s usually something most couples (especially men) have not experienced before.
There are so many things you can do like fucking your slave with a black strapon.
It’s super humiliating for a slave to get fucked in the ass by a strapon!
Just make sure you use lots of lube if he isn’t used to that kind of harsh treatment 🙂
Another thing you can do is play around with butt plugs.
Butt plugs are typically smaller and have less girth, so it’s probably a better starting point!
And my favorite type of anal play is prostate milkings.
And this is because you can milk your slave’s prostate even if he’s locked in chastity to give him a big ruined orgasm!
My favorite way to do this?
With the Cuck Heaven of course!
3. Chastity days
If you haven’t considered chastity in your FLR, then you definitely should! It’s one of my favorite femdom activities because it involves total control of your husband/boyfriend.
In fact, you will never find a more well-behaved man when you have him locked in chastity!
That’s why I’m a firm believer in the number 1 femdom rule for any marriage: lock your husband in chastity…
When it comes to chastity, something I love doing is adding extra days or taking days off due to your slave’s behavior.
For example, let’s say you agree to a 10 day initial lockup.
The keyword here is INITIAL lockup.
That number could go UP or DOWN based on his behaivor.
Did he do a really good job eating you out last night? Then may consider taking a day off.
Did he do the dishes and take the trash out without having to be asked? Then maybe take a day off.
Or maybe he was bad and left the toilet seat up! Add two days to chastity!
Or maybe he was being annoying and begging you to be let out of chastity. In that case, add another week!
I think you see where I’m going with this at this point haha.
4. Dildo cocksucking
One thing I love to introduce to the FLR is feminization or bi activities…especially for cucks!
And one of the most humiliating things for a man to do is to suck a cock!
Well, before you can get there though…you need some practice!
So pick up a big black dildo for your slave to practice on.
Make him get on his knees and pucker up those lips! And to make things even more humiliating, get a riding crop and spank his ass while he’s doing the dirty deed 🙂
5. Milked like a cow!
One of my favorite femdom wife ideas is male orgasm control.
I think milking is also a great fetish to engage in…especially when your slave is milked over and over again!
This next femdom game is so cruel it should almost be illegal!
Tie down your husband on the bed and get ready to milk him.
Set a timer for 30 minutes and see how many times you can milk him in that time period!
And trust me, he will be in complete torture after you milk him for the 5th or 6th time haha!
And when you play this game enough, you can try to beat your own record 🙂
P.S. if you’re looking for more ways for post orgasm torture, check out this blog post!
6. CBT games
Femdom games can’t be all about tease and denial right?
Sometimes pain is pleasure…and that’s where CBT games come in!
And there are a ton of ways you can go about this.
You can go the old fashioned route like slapping or punching his balls (go soft if he’s not used to the pain).
Or you can do something more sensual like cock trampling (great if he has a foot fetish).
But one of my favorite things to do is putting clothespins on your slave’s cock and balls!
They are super simple to use, cause a moderate amount of pain, and do not cause permanent damage.
It’s a great way to incorporate some pain in the bedroom!
But if you are a bit more hardcore…some ballbusting might be appropriate!
7. Bondage games
There’s nothing more submissive than being tied down. That’s why I think every couple should incorporate bondage games into their femdom marriage.
Your slave will be VERY vulnerable in this position and then you can do whatever you want to him like:
- Tease and denial
- Ruined orgasms
- CBT
- Pantyhose pulling
- …and much more!
And if you’re into cuckolding, one thing you can do is leave your wet panties draped over his face while you go out with your bull!
8. Bring your girlfriends in
Okay this femdom ideas probably isn’t for everyone, but I just wanted to leave it out here in case it’s possible for you.
But bringing in your *close* girlfriends into the fun is well a lot of fun!
Think about it…you could tease you slave in chastity together…or you could even cuck him with one of your hot girlfriends!
You could make your slave worship your feet together..or you could trample him.
There’s so much you can do with another dominant woman in the room so don’t throw this idea out the window!
9. Phone sex
Let’s face it…you can’t be around your partner 24/7. Sometimes you have to work long hours and sometimes you even have to travel for work.
But with your phone…you never have to be apart for long!
You can dominate your slave husband over the phone.
Make him kneel before you and submit like a good cuck. Make him tell you how lucky he is to be your slave.
And you can make him to some humiliating tasks over the phone as well!
Phone sex is a great time to use your imagination (and play with fantasies too), so don’t be afraid to let it all loose 🙂
Femdom Ideas & Scenarios for your FLR – Final Thoughts!
Overall, a femdom marriage is the best type of marriage.
There are so many things you can do in your sex life so you’ll never be bored.
I hope you enjoyed these femdom ideas and have a lot of fun trying to recreate them!
P.S. let me know which idea from this list you want to try the most in the comments 🙂
B says
My wife is new at this and was very shy all of her life. I suggested she take full control of me and my sex life including chastity. At first she was reluctant and didn’t have much interest in it but boy she changed quickly! She now has me locked in a steel cage from 6am to 6:30pm every day ! I’m allowed out of cage at night (sometimes not) so I can sleep well. But come morning back on ! I have to go to work like that and the panties she picks out every day ! My toenails are now permanently painted whatever color she chooses. Oh and she has bought a ton of toys also. Vibrators. Whips. Cat o nine . Outfits. Handcuffs.straps and even a straight jacket ! Yes I think she’s getting it ! Anyway we do not practice chuckhold though just complete control for her. I’ll try and write back another time .
MyFemdomRules says
That’s great! I’m glad you’re enjoying the lifestyle 🙂