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Should You Still Have Sex In A Cuckold Marriage?

April 28, 2020 By MyFemdomRules

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Should you still have sex in a cuckold marriage?

I think that’s a question that a lot of new couples interested in cuckolding ask.

To be honest, it really depends on what kind of cuckold marriage you want (or have). And no one should tell you how to live your marriage.

If you want a truly dom/sub cuckold marriage where the husband is locked in chastity 24/7, then you probably won’t have sex together anymore.

But if you’re more into cuckolding for the casual element of it and experimenting around, then you probably still will have sex together.

Anyways, this blog post will explore some of the reasons for and against having sex in a cuckold marriage.

Contents

  • Why you should still have sex in a cuckold marriage:
  • 1. Learn new moves
  • 2. Let your husband have the sloppy seconds
  • 3. Sex is still important in a marriage
  • Why you shouldn’t have sex in a cuckold marriage
  • 1. He’s locked in chastity
  • 2. 24/7 cuckold type marriage
  • 3. He’s too small
  • Should You Still Have Sex? – Final Thoughts

Why you should still have sex in a cuckold marriage:

Here are three reasons you should still have sex in a cuckold marriage

1. Learn new moves

One reason to still have sex with your cuckold husband is that you’ll inevitably learn new moves from fucking your bull(s).

If you have been with someone for years or even decades you’ll often find yourselves trying the same positions over and over and over again.

That’s fine because you may think you like those positions. But it can get boring after a while.

Anyways, once you have sex with someone else it kind of changes your world (not trying to be overly dramatic here).

And who better to share those new moves you’ve learned from your bull than your loving husband?

Just make sure he’s earned the right after being locked in chastity!

2. Let your husband have the sloppy seconds

Letting your husband have the “sloppy seconds” is a real big turn on for both partners (and it’s quite the humiliation too)

And I’m not talking about him eating the creampie (although that is really fun).

I’m talking about allow cuck to fuck you (i.e. vaginal sex) after you’ve had a night of fun with your bull.

It’s great for him for several reasons. First, he feels like he has “reclaimed” you. I know it sounds crazy, but after seeing his wife with another man, it’s nice to have his wife back.

Think of it as aftercare.

Second, it’s incredibly erotic to make love to one’s wife after she has been with another man. He can literally feel another man’s cum in her!

Finally, it may be a different sensation for him, especially if your bull is VERY big south of the border. He may feel that his wife no longer “feels” the same!

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3. Sex is still important in a marriage

Finally, the last reason you may want to have sex with your cuckold husband is that sex is an incredibly important part of a marriage.

It provides lots of intimacy. It feels good. And it is a great aftercare activity to engage.

Now, I do know of many cuckold couples who no longer have vaginal sex together (or any sex for that matter), but that’s not the only type of cuckold marriage you can develop.

Sex is still important for the mental health of both couples in the marriage.

Why you shouldn’t have sex in a cuckold marriage

Here are 3 reasons why you shouldn’t have sex in a cuckold marriage…

1. He’s locked in chastity

I know lots of cuckold couples LOVE to practice hardcore chastity – meaning cuck is locked up pretty much 24/7 and only let out for cleaning and other duties like that.

Chastity has become such a big part of their marriage that it feels almost “foreign” to have cuck fuck his wife again.

In fact, in some cases, the cuck hasn’t been let out of chastity for decades (other than regular cleanings).

Now I’m not against that at all. I think it’s really hot in many cases.

2. 24/7 cuckold type marriage

I’ve written about the different types of cuckold marriages before.

And the most hardcore type of cuckold marriage is the 24/7 lifestyle cuckold marriage.

In this type of cuckold marriage, the wife takes TOTAL control over her cuckold husband.

And obviously this means no sex as well.

So if you find yourself lucky to be in this type of cuckold marriage, you will definitely not be having sex with your cuck!

3. He’s too small

And probably the number one reason not to have sex with your cuckold husband is because he has a small dick!

Obviously, if he’s under 3 inches, it’s going to be SUPER hard to have an orgasm of any kind riding that thing.

So if he’s got a small dick it’s best to lock him in chastity and throw away the key so you never have to fuck him again!

Sex should be reserved for men who can make their wives cum on a regular basis.

Should You Still Have Sex? – Final Thoughts

Anyways, hope this post gives you some things to think about from both sides of the table.

A cuckold marriage isn’t always so black and white. And often your marriage will develop in ways you can’t foresee.

So, what do you think about the topic? Should a cuck still have sex with his wife?

Let me know in the comments!

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  1. kinky Terppa says

    May 6, 2020 at 7:03 am

    sounds terible to be male nd cuckold 24/7… and wife fuck´s bull…
    and wife uck´s me strap-on…

    • Cora BD. says

      May 19, 2020 at 3:05 pm

      It depends on who you are. I was a 24/7 Cuckold and it was wonderful. I really loved that aspect of our marriage and miss it today. I know that would be crazy for many men, but for a cuckold like me it was a shining self-actualization that was empowering to my self esteem.

      Actually, it was harder on my wife than me, I think. When she was between lovers (which she often would be, sometimes for months, this being real life) I think she would have liked to have used me as a substitute. But she was strong and admitted that over time she really lost the ability to even see me in that light.

      Step by step sex between us was pared back to my receiving strap-ons (in either orifice) and rimming her perfect butt. This was the case for years, over which even those tightly limited rewards became even less frequent (as did my orgasms) and my slightly prescribed humiliating sex play became a solo affair.

      She eventually left me for one of her boyfriends, but this was after decades and what a ride!

      • MyFemdomRules says

        May 20, 2020 at 10:22 am

        Wow that sounds like an amazing marriage! Super glad you were able to experience it and have such fond memories 🙂

    • tony lenton says

      May 24, 2020 at 9:37 am

      i loved being permanently denied sex when i was a cuckold for 6 years. it made watching her fuck bigger cocks so much more fun.

  2. maryann hayes says

    May 16, 2020 at 11:16 am

    my husband i keep in chastity we do let him watch and sometimes let him clean us up after he has also when bull brings a friend he will keep one hard for me

    • MyFemdomRules says

      May 16, 2020 at 5:04 pm

      Sounds like the life! 🙂

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