10 Easy Ways To Dominate Your Husband: FLR for Beginners

Ready for some easy ways to dominate your husband?

If you are just starting to experiment around with a female led relationship, you will need a good list of things to do to dominate your husband.

But don’t worry, I have compiled a list of things to try to turn him into your bitch.

So if you’re ready to have some fun with these beginner games, then read on ahead.

And don’t forget, ultimate goal is to control him physically, emotionally, and financially!

1. Make him do the chores

Most couples split the chores around the house.

But what I want you to do is start giving him more and more chores…until all the chores of the house are his.

Start with simple things like making him wash the dishes and vacuum/mop the floors.

And then progress slowly to making him cook as well until he’s doing everything around the house.

One thing you can do is give him a “chore list”.

I prefer having something physical list like an actual piece of paper taped to the wall because it feels more real that way.

2. Say no to sex

Obviously, the best way to control your husband is to say no to sex. Wow…that just sounded like an ad for a high school sex ed class haha.

But anyways that’s exactly what I want you to do. Just say no!

And stand your ground too no matter how much he begs. Taking away sex from him is a big power move.

And it’s also a great step toward chastity.

Now when I say no to sex, I mean vaginal sex. Obviously, eating you out should still be on the table!

In other words, you need to train him to put your needs and pleasures above his own.

By controlling the sex of the marriage, you control him!

Plus, by saying no you are also getting him ready for chastity, which I believe is a staple of ANY female led relationship.

3. Make him ask to spend money

Another easy way to control your husband is to control his money.

And this is a great way to emasculate and humiliate him.

Make him ask for your explicit permission before he can spend anything at all.

Obviously he shouldn’t ask for permission for necessities like groceries or food or paying for gas.

BUT he should ask for permission beyond that…like to buy a new watch for himself or to go golfing with his buddies.

This ensures he knows who is the boss the the house and who is in control!

4. Run errands for you

Making your slave husband run errands for you (especially the ones you hate) is such a thrill.

I mean it’s a simple thing, but there’s just something about it that’s really empowering.

And sometimes it’s just fun to send him on an errand “just for the hell of it” even when you really don’t need it.

So don’t be afraid to send him to pick up items at the pharmacy or to make him do your dry cleaning or to wash your car. It trains him to be obedient and submissive!

5. Foot massages

One thing that I hear all the time from my friends is that their husbands or boyfriends don’t take care of their feet.

What a shame!

I guess they’ve never dated a guy with a foot fetish before 🙂

But if your husband is into femdom or cuckolding, then there’s a good likelihood that he has a foot fetish too!

This means “making” him submit to your feet won’t be hard!

Worshiping a woman’s feet is a great feat of submission and servitude.

So order him to give you a foot massage after a long day of work or maybe even after you’ve hit the gym or some cardio exercise.

6. Kiss your feet

Similar to foot massages, make your slave husband kiss your feet.

For example, you can have him kiss your feet while putting on your heels before a sexy date night.

Or you can do something risky like putting your feet on his lap at the cafe in public and make him sneak in a quick kiss of your soles!

Getting him used to worshiping your feet (and literally the ground you walk on) is a great step to conditioning him to become your slave husband!

7. Eat pussy without expecting anything in return

If you have a “normal” husband, he probably has a quid pro quo mentality when it comes to giving oral sex or any pleasure at all.

BUT you need to train that mentality out of him!

You MUST train him to crave giving you pleasure.

Your pleasure is his pleasure and that must be ingrained into his brain!

One thing to do is to lock him in chastity and have him eat your pussy all night long.

This will train him to associate giving you pleasure as happiness.

8. Choose his wardrobe

Another thing you can do to emasculate your slave husband is to choose his wardrobe.

Most men have horrible fashion sense anyways. So here’s what I want you to do…

I want you to start picking out clothes for him – you’re already controlling his finances anyway, right? 🙂

So start picking things out for him. And if you want, you can add more “girly” colors into his wardrobe like pink or purple.

And eventually you can even start making him wear nice panties for you underneath his regular clothes!

9. Mind fuck him at work

Teasing your husband while he is at work is a great way to extend your influence over him.

For example, you can leave a sultry voice message for him to do something humiliating at the office for you like sucking on a stapler like it was a cock.

Or you can make him jerk off to you (but no cumming) in the bathroom.

Or you slip your panties in his lunch bag and make him smell it right there on the office floor!

10. Punish him

Part of training your husband to become a good slave (or cuck) is punishment.

He needs to know when he has fucked up.

And it’s great to have a list of go to punishments you can dole out.

And punishments can be a combination of pain, teasing, or even just making him do the chores.

For example, if he fucks up, you can spank his ass with a wooden paddle.

Or you can add extra days to his chastity sentence.

Or you can make him do something humiliating like kiss your feet in public.

Click here to read more about my naughty ideas for punishments!

Ways to Dominate Your Husband For Beginners – Final Thoughts

Overall, starting a FLR is a new and exciting part of your marriage together.

Hopefully these suggestions give you some ideas on how to have fun with your new found marriage dynamic.

So, which idea is your favorite? And which one do you want to try the most?

Let me know in the comments!