How To Train Your Cuckold Husband: 10 Ways To Turn Him Into Your Slave

Do you want to train your cuckold husband into the perfect slave?

Well, you’ve come to the right place!

Training your husband to become your slave is one of the greatest pleasures of life. Not only is it super fun and sexually thrilling, but it’s also very practical.

After all, he should love you enough to do anything for you.

Now, training him can be a long process if being submissive isn’t something that he’s used to.

But don’t worry, I have a bunch of tips to turn your husband from “alpha male” to cowering at your feet!

1. Enforce chastity

If you want to turn your husband into a good slave for you, chastity needs to be enforced.

There are a ton of benefits to chastity. However, the main benefit is that it makes him submissive immediately.

Taking away his ability to jerk and have sex is an important part of changing his behavior fundamentally.

What you want to do is really ensure that he puts his needs and desires second to you. And chastity helps accomplish this.

If he is new to chastity, he obviously won’t be able to put the cage on for extended periods of time without more training.

However, put it on him progressively longer and he will be able to take long lockups with no problem!

2. Punishments and rewards

Now I did take a psychology class in college and don’t remember much from it to be perfectly honest.

But I did remember some of the things from a class on positive and negative reinforcements 🙂

Setting up a system of rewards and punishments is a great way to enforce good behavior in your wife led marriage.

It’s kind of like training a dog. He needs to know when he has been good and when he has been bad.

Now, what is “good” and what is “bad” is entirely up to you.

When he is bad, he needs to be punished. And there are a variety of ways to do this.

For example, you could do something that involves pain like spanking, whipping, CBT or ballbusting, or slapping.

Or you can do something a little more sensual like tease and denial, extra days to chastity, or household chores.

And similarly, rewards should involve something that pleases you.

For example, if he has been good, you will allow him to lick your pussy or eat your ass or worship your feet.

3. Do the chores

In my opinion, one of the best things to train your husband to do is the chores around the house.

And I’m talking about ALL the chores of the house like laundry, the dishes, taking out the garbage, etc.

You have much more important things to do than doing the dishes or sweeping the floors.

Make him do all of that so you can focus on taking care of you (and maybe finding a new, bigger dick to fuck)!

The point of making him do the chores is not only to make him do the stuff you don’t want to do, but also to ensure he is able to execute your orders to perfection.

There’s nothing like giving an order to a slave and having it be half assed.

So making him do the chores on a regular basis ensures he will learn how you like things and to establish a standard for obeying you.

4. Control how he dresses

Another way to really control your husband is to control how he dresses.

This could involve something of a “wardrobe audit”.

Go through his entire closet and pick out the stuff you like and throw away or donate the stuff you don’t like.

You will pick out the outfits that he wears.

And if you want to go to the more extreme and turn him into a sissy, you can start buying him some lingerie and girly clothes to wear as well!

Again, the point of controlling how he dresses isn’t necessarily to turn him into a sissy (although that’s a possibility).

It’s more about him giving up control and submitting to you completely.

5. Put your sexual pleasure over his

One of the ultimate goals of a FLR is for your husband to put your sexual needs BEFORE his own.

Well, you can teach this to him by enforcing chastity as I mentioned.

But it extends beyond that too.

His sole focus in the bedroom should be giving you pleasure in a number of ways. He should be begging to eat your pussy on a regular basis.

And he should really hone in on his pussy eating skills.

This means reading books and watching videos on the subject. And this means talking to you about your likes when it comes to pleasing you in the bedroom.

Train him to always put your needs ahead of his.

And this will naturally extend outside the bedroom as well (i.e. into your rgegular/personal lives).

6. Serve your bulls and girlfriends

As I mentioned, having your husband do the chores around the house helps set a standard for what to expect.

And this also extends to your bulls and girlfriends.

If you have company over (whether for a kinky visit or a vanilla visit), your cuck should be on his best behavior.

He should personally greet every guest and ask to take off their shoes, take their jackets, and ask if they want a beverage.

In fact, he should be on call while the guests are over so he can tend to their every need like a proper slave.

And you’ll find that him serving your friends/bulls will really show how awesome you are!

7. Control the money

I’ve always said that a woman should control a man sexually, emotionally, and financially.

One of the more easier ways to control your cuck is to control his money.

So why do you want to do this? Well, aside from the actual monetary aspect of this, it’s all about control.

Meaning he has to ask your permission to spend. In other words, it trains him to seek your approval and to follow your direction.

That’s right, you will give him a small allowance every week for necessities like food.

However, if he wants to spend anything at all – say for things like clothes or going to the movies or going to the bar with his friends, he will need to ask permission.

Not only do you know what is best for him, but this teaches him to seek your permission and approval in his life, which is exactly what you want!

8. Control how he jerks

Even if you don’t have your cuck locked in chastity, you should always control his cock.

This means things like asking permission to use the bathroom and asking permission to stroke.

You control that dick. It’s not his dick anymore, it’s YOURS.

So you can control how he jerks, how fast, which hand he jerks with, and he he will be able to come.

He must learn that that is your cock and your property.

Controlling him like this is absolutely exhilirating and will make your pussy wet as fuck!

And it will reinforce the fact that he is there to serve you and that you own him.

9. Instill proper manners

Sometimes men don’t always have the best manners so you really have to beat it into them (sometimes physically haha)!

Make sure he has proper manners by addressing you properly (i.e. Miss, Goddess, Mistress, etc.)

Second, make sure he does the simple things like leaving the toilet seat down or holding the door for you.

Manners say a lot about a person (especially a slave). As a result, it is super important that he be will trained and on his best behavior at all times.

10. Proper cuckold duties

Once you have started to train your cuck to be a good slave, you can start doing more advanced things…like training him to be a good cuckold!

Now there are a ton of cuckold duties he should be able to perform. In fact, I have written about a whole list of them in this post.

But to be short, he should do things like:

Sucking cock

Eating pussy

Eating ass

…and much more!

How To Train Your Cuckold Husband – Final Thoughts

Overall, training your cuckold husband is a noble task.

It may not always be a smooth journey, but the destination is always worth the effort 🙂

Hopefully these tips will help you train him to be a good slave for you.

So, what do you think about these tips? Are there any things you would add or disagree with?

Let me know in the comments!