A lot of people have written to me asking about when it is acceptable time to unlock your husband from chastity.
Well, it generally depends. Some couples prefer to stay in chastity for a definite period of time – say 30 days.
While other keyholders will only let their slave out of chastity after behaving well.
And some keyholders keep a “fluid” release date in mind based on how well the slave behaves.
So this post will cover times in which you may want to unlock your husband from chastity (however brief that “freedom” may be!)
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1. Put him in a smaller cage
I think one of the cruelest (in a good way) things you can do to a chastity slave is to give him hope – hope that he will be free and that you will let him cum.
That’s why this is such a cruel thing to do!
One of the very rare times when you should unlock your cuck is when you are changing chastity cages.
Maybe you recently purchased a new cage to try or maybe you want to put him into a smaller cage like the Mini Prison!
I’m generally a big fan of keeping several different cages around because different types of cages are good for different reasons.
For example, steel cages are great for long-term wear, while plastic cages (like pink cages) are great to have some fun colors.
And spiked chastity cages are great for short term tease and denial session (but really impractical for long-term wear).
Ideally, you would only change chastity cages to put your cuck into a SMALLER cage!
For example, before going to bed tell your cuck to present his (I mean your) cock to you.
Then inform him that you will be letting him out of chastity.
Give him a quick tease and then slowly take off the cage.
And just when he thinks he has freedom, pull the rug from under him by telling him you are just letting him out to put him into a new *and smaller* cage!
I’m pretty sure he’ll be so frustrated, but he has no choice but to obey!
2. To tease him
Keeping your slave husband constantly in chastity isn’t the only way to tease him.
Sometimes it’s better to take him out of the cage to tease him for a few hours just to lock him back in!
For example, you can take him out and allow him to fuck a fake pussy only to deny him in the end.
Or you can take matters into your own hands and tie him down to really tease him with a remote control cock ring!
Finally, you could also see how many times you can edge him.
But once the teasing is over, it’s time to go back into his cell!
P.S. if he’s super hard after the teasing, here are some ideas to make him go soft again:
- Make him take a cold shower or dump an ice bucket on his cock/balls
- Kick or slap his balls until he goes soft
- Rub some icy hot on his cock/balls (my favorite one!)
3. Compare cocks
Another reason to let your cuck out of chastity is to really humiliate him.
That’s right, I’m talking about small penis humiliation!
And how do you do this? Well, you let him out of chastity and compare him side by side with your bull (ideally a BBC)!
Not only does this serve as the ultimate humiliation, but it also reminds him of WHY he is locked in chastity.
That micro dick won’t be pleasing anyone (let alone you) anytime soon!
And you should let him know too by verbally teasing and taunting him while comparing cocks.
And feel free to have your bull launch some insults too!
After the humiliation is over, it’s time to lock him back up.
4. Clean and shave
Just because you are locked in chastity doesn’t mean you don’t have to practice personal hygiene.
Personal hygiene is obviously a bit harder to control when there’s a steel prison around your cock/balls.
On a regular basis (once a week is good), your cuck should be let out of chastity to properly clean his cock/balls and also the cage as well.
Even with well designed chastity cages, some urine can spill onto the cage, which can begin to stink up after a while.
Secondly, he should take this time to shave as well. There’s nothing grosser than a harry set of balls.
In fact, if he wants to be a good sissy, shaving all his hairs should be a requirement!
Oh and be sure to supervise him while he’s doing all of this. If he’s been locked up for a very long time, he will have a natural tendency to begin stroking it.
Make sure he doesn’t do this at all.
Letting him out on this occasion is ONLY for cleaning.
5. On his birthday
I actually ran a poll on Twitter recently about this topic and it was a bit more one sided than I thought.
Some people think that chastity slaves shouldn’t be let out on their birthday.
While others think it is a nice thing to do for him.
Personally, I’m a big fan of letting your cuck out on chastity on his birthday. I mean it IS his birthday and he should get something special!
And there’s nothing more special than finally getting that freedom after being locked up for so long.
And look at the bright side too, letting him out is a free gift so you don’t even have to spend any money!
Now, just because you let him out of chastity doesn’t mean you have to let him cum haha!
But letting him out of chastity is just a nice way of celebrating his birthday.
And don’t forget to plan something naughty and kinky for the big day too!
6. Medical emergency
Obviously with all type of kink play, safety should be the number one concern.
If there’s a medical issue and you need to go to the doctor, take off the cage first (even if it’s just a routine physical).
It’ll be pretty hard explaining it to a doctor before you go to heart surgery or have any procedure done.
Maybe that’s not the case if you know your doctor and are close haha, but I’m guessing that’s not the case for 99% of people.
Also, if there are any issues with your cage at all – such as a sizing issue or extreme discomfort, it’s better be safer than sorry and take off the cage.
If you are not used to being locked in chastity, it’s smarter to use a larger cage until your balls can get used to being constantly suppressed by a ring.
Remember, no amount of fun is worth risking safety.
7. When you want
As your cuck’s keyholder, you are the sole decision maker for letting him out of chastity.
Some couples like to agree to a certain lockup period – like 30 days or 60 days. When that day comes, he’ll be unlocked. Pretty simple.
Other couples prefer a more “fluid” approach. For example, you may deduct days if he’s been good and add days if he’s been bad.
Finally, some couples don’t really have a set lock up period in mind. Instead, the keyholder decides based on his daily/weekly performance and if he’s behaved.
Obviously, you don’t need to let your cuck out of chastity to give him an orgasm. For example, you can give him a sissygasm with a prostate massager or an anal plug.
However, if you want to be nice, let him out of chastity and give him that well deserved orgasm as a “good boy.”
When To Unlock Your Husband From Chastity
Overall, there are a number of “acceptable” times to unlock your husband from chastity aside from giving him an orgasm.
Obviously the number one time is when there is a health issue.
So hopefully this list serves as a good guide to the new FLR couples out there experimenting around with chastity.
So, what do you think about this list? Is there anything you’d add or remove from the list?
Let me know in the comments!
tony lenton says
its really hard to find a cage for long term chastity. iv broken 2 plastic cages in 1 year. metal feels so heavy.
Satiko says
Hello…
I had the same problem. As a beta male, submissive, cuckold and sissy hubby, I started my life in chastity with a device about two years ago. My first experience was with a CB-6000 male chastity device, clear and the same problem occurred. I was very disappointed. Then I acquired a similar model more suitable for me in pink, but as I like discreet things and wearing panties, soon I bought a HolyTrainer V3 similar model in resin also in pink. I adapted perfectly to it. I found it more comfortable, more simple and discreet. Under panties it is very discreet and elegant giving me an almost feminine silhouette. I started to wear it permanently (24/7), only removing it for daily intimate hygiene. Always wanting discretion and a more sissy and feminine profile, I just bought a new HolyTrainer V3 Nano, and if I adapt perfectly to it, for sure at the end of this year I will buy a new, the HolyTrainer The Nub model.
I hope I can help you …