Cuckolding your husband with a man or a woman…which is better?
If you’ve been in the cuckold lifestyle for a while that’s probably something you’ve been asking yourself.
Historically, most women have cuckolded their husbands with another man. And I think that’s the general idea of how cuckolding is normally thought of.
However, there’s also the possibility of cuckolding him with a woman instead.
In fact, I’ve written about the fun of cuckolding your husband with one of your girlfriends in the past.
So in this post, I want to talk about the pros and cons of each type of cuckolding and to give my thoughts on which one is “best”.
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Cuckolding your husband with a woman
In contrast to cuckolding your husband with a man, cuckolding your man with a woman is more of a sensual experience.
In fact, I think more like taking a tease and denial session to the next level.
Ideally, you would find a close girlfriend to tease and deny your cuck with.
This is deal because you are already close and the idea of having someone you all know in on the secret is super hot.
There’s just something about turning someone you know and putting them into a new light that’s super hot and sexy.
Another aspect about cuckolding with a woman that’s sexy is that there are just some things a woman does in bed that a man compete with – things like eating pussy for example.
That’s why it’s so hot, because you know she can please your wife in ways that you could never do.
And something I’ve noticed is that the energy is different with your wife is with another woman.
It’s hard to describe, but it’s a highly erotic and sensual aura that really takes your bedroom games to the next level.
Finally, let’s be honest….just seeing two girls together in bed is super hot. I don’t know why it is, but it’s just the way things work haha.
Now, the main downside of cuckolding with a woman instead of a man is that it isn’t as humiliating.
If your man is into cuckolding, he’s probably already naturally submissive to women. But it’s another thing to subject him to be under the control of another man.
So if you are craving hardcore humiliation, a traditional bull would probably be better for that.
In general, I would say cuckolding with a woman is meant to be fun, sensual, and a big tease.
Ways to cuckold your husband with a woman:
So, what are some ways in which you can cuckold your husband with a woman?
Well, here are a few ideas to get your mind thinking about fun things to do:
1. Make him take you lingerie shopping
One super fun thing you can do is have your cuck take you girls lingerie shopping.
This is really fun because not only do you get new clothes (who doesn’t like that!), but you can also tease him in public at the mall by trying all those sexy outfits on.
And if you want to sissify him, you can also make him try some things on too!
And the teasing doesn’t have to end there.
Bring back all the sexy lingerie home and tease cuckboy by trying them on and then eating each other’s pussies while he tries to get hard in the chastity cage.
2. Pussy eating session
Another thing you can do is bring your girlfriend over for a pussy eating slumber party!
Now, there are lots of ways to go about this.
For example, you can just eat each other out all weekend and now allow cuckboy to contribute and taste anything at all.
Instead, he will be reduced to just a slave waiting on you hand and foot an serving you wine and anything else you want.
Or you can do something more of a tease by taking turns having him eat you out like a good boy.
Or you could do something in between the two above ideas.
The important thing is you have fun and make sure cuckboy is throbbing in his chastity cage.
3. Public humiliation
Finally, I find that cuckolding with a woman is perfect for public humiliation – and more specifically public teasing.
With two girls, you can really tease your cuck in public. For example, you can tease him under the table at the restaurant.
Or you can tease him in the car while driving to a dinner date, and so much more!
Cuckolding your husband with a man
Cuckolding with a man is definitely the more traditional approach.
And there’s a lot of appeal for picking a man to cuckold your husband with too!
First of all, I think it’s WAY more humiliating. By picking a man over your husband, you are telling him that he’s not “man” enough to satisfy you in bed.
There’s just something about the raw humiliation and power exchange that’s really appealing here.
Your husband will KNOW that you need another man to satisfy you sexually.
And second of all, it’s much more humiliating to clean up your wife after a man as well!
Let’s be honest, dirty creampies are super fun to see and clean up!
Third of all, you can really turn your cuck into a sissy with a man.
For example, you can make him suck cock or even take it up the ass.
When you are cuckolding him with a woman you can’t really do that. Sure, you can replicate the experience with a strapon, but it’s honestly not the same.
Now there’s also a few drawbacks of cuckolding your husband with a man as well.
For one, it’s MUCH harder to find a good cuckold partner that’s a man than a woman.
Most women are more receptive to this and can keep better secrets.
And you never know if you are dealing with a crazy man as well.
Finally, I have also found that it’s much easier for jealousy to form when cuckolding with a man instead of a women.
Why not mix the best of both worlds?
Now, I will mention this idea because some of you long time readers might bring up the fact that I didn’t mention it!
But you could also do the best of two worlds: cuckold your man with a man AND a woman!
For example, you are close with another kinky (or lifestyle) couple, it can be something you set up in advance.
I think this is something really kinky – although it’s not something I have experienced myself.
What are your thoughts on this? 🙂
Cuckolding Your Husband – Final Thoughts
One of the things I like most about the cuckold lifestyle is having options. By this, I mean you have MANY options to have fun.
And this comes into play with you are choosing cuckold partners.
If you want something a bit more sensual and a tease/denial type night, I would say cuckolding your husband with a girl is more fun.
But if you just want dick or want to create a more humiliating atmosphere, then cuckolding him with a man is probably the better route.
So, what do you think about this?
Do you prefer a man or woman when it comes to your wife’s cuckold partners?
Let me know in the comments!
Aaron Sampson says
I’ve been cuckolding hubby with his boss who he can not STAND! Haha! His face when he answer the door and seen it was him omg! Then I said say hello to the man who’s cuckolding you I think you’ve meet him 😉