Where Should A Cuckold Sleep? Cuckold Sleeping Arrangements

Where should a cuckold sleep?

Now this subject may seem kind of crazy, but it is important to understand the sleeping arrangements in your cuckold marriage.

Not only is sleep incredibly important, but where you sleep is also very important for the dynamic of the relationship.

Now, where you sleep can change depending on if you have a bull coming over (and staying the night) or not.

It can also depend on the type of cuckold relationship that you have.

So this post will talk about the different types of possible sleeping arrangements in your marriage.

What kind of Cuckold Marriage do you have?

In general, the sleeping arrangement of your cuckold marriage will depend on (1) if your bull is sleeping over or not and (2) the type of cuckold marriage that you have.

Since the first issue is pretty obvious, I’ll focus on the second one.

As I have written about in the past, there are 3 main types of cuckold marriages:

1. Fantasy in the bedroom
2. Cuckold sex life
3. And the 24/7 cuckold lifestile

The fantasy in the bedroom marriage is where most couples start off their cuckold relationship.

Cuckolding is just a fantasy that you talk about and maybe even roleplay a little in bed.

However, real cuckolding isn’t something you have done…yet.

In this type of relationship, it’s more natural to sleep in the same bed together.

In the second type of marriage, the Cuckold sex life, you are very well engaged in cuckold activities.

However, there is still a very clear distinction between your cuckold sex life and the rest of your personal lives.

In these types of marriages, most couples will still sleep together, although some may opt for more unique sleeping arrangements (which I will discuss soon).

And finally, if you are living the 24/7 cuckold lifestyle arrangement, it’s pretty likely that you and your husband aren’t sleeping in the same bed together that often.

So with that in mind, let’s go over some of the more common cuckold sleeping arrangements!

1. In the same bed

The simplest place for a cuckold to sleep is in the same bed with his wife. This is great because it’s something you can both look forward to no matter what happens in your sex life.

Now, obviously if your bull is staying the night, the cuck should sleep somewhere else for the night.

But if he’s not, then sleeping in the same bed is nice.

This is because sleeping in the same bed as your partner is a very intimate time for most couples (even if you don’t speak to each other at all).

And the great thing about sleeping in bed together is that you’re more vulnerable and able to speak about important things (not just in you sex life).

Finally, it’s also nice to be in close proximity to your partner after a day of cuckolding and just snuggling and holding each other.

2. On the floor

While some hotwives want their husbands to sleep in the same bed, others want to distance themselves during the night.

That’s fine, but it should be something you two discuss.

One option is to have your cuck sleep on the floor by the bed.

Now ideally you would have some kind of set up on the floor (i.e. mattress, blanket, pillow, etc). However, if you want to punish him, you can make him sleep on the floor without anything!

I would reserve that for punishments and not too frequently because if he has a bad back, it can cause long-term problems.

Sleeping on the floor is also perfect if you have a bull over and he’s staying the night.

I have to say, it would be pretty humiliating for a cuckold if there’s another man sleeping with his wife on the bed while he’s on the floor!

3. On the couch!

Another option for when your bull is staying the night is to have your cuck sleep on the couch in the living room.

Now, most couches are not very comfortable for sleeping in long-term (unless you have a futon). So I wouldn’t make him sleep on it long-term.

I would use this for punishments (when you don’t want him to sleep in the same bed as you) or when your bull is sleeping over.

By the way, if you have him sleeping on the couch, it is also a good idea to have him wake up early in the morning to cook you and your bull some breakfast in bed.

And sleeping on the couch can also be a big tease because he can’t watch you to have sex!

But if he’s lucky, he may just be able to hear your moans 🙂

4. In a separate room

Sleeping in a separate room is a good option for some cuckold couples – especially if you have a guest room a room you are not using.

Sleeping in a separate room is typically for couples who are in a more serious cuckold relationship. As the distance signifies the fact that he is not allowed to fuck his wife anymore.

But even if you aren’t in that type of cuckold relationship, you could also sleep in the other room when your wife has her playmates over.

This is more comfortable than the other options and it can be just as humiliating as well.

For example, you can try to hear what is going on in your bedroom while your wife is getting fucked!

5. In a cage

I have to say that sleeping in a cage is a little more hardcore than the other ideas on this list.

If you want to be a bit more strict, you could have your cuck sleep in a large dog cage.

Just make sure it’s big enough so he doesn’t have to curl up into a ball to sleep (that could have bad implications for his back).

In general, dog cages are better if your husband is shorter so he can fit inside easier.

Dog cages are great because you can lock the cage so he has to wait for you to wake up and “let him out” to start his day!

Now, instead of making him sleep on the cold bars, you could put a small mattress or some pillows in there if you are feeling generous.

Making him sleep in the cage while you have company over is also pretty humiliating, so consider that too!

6. At the foot of the bed

The final idea is to have cuck sleep at the foot of the bed (perpendicular to you and your bull).

The idea behind this is to use him as a footrest while you two are in bed together.

To he honest, unless you have a big bed, this really isn’t possible. And it’s not the most comfortable, but it is very humiliating.

You could even have him massage and worship your feet until you fall asleep!

Where Should A Cuckold Sleep? – Final Thoughts

So, what are your thoughts on the idea of cuckold sleeping arrangements?

Should a cuckold sleep with his wife? Why or why not?

And what was your favorite idea on this list?

Personally, I’m a big fan of the first one. At the end of the day, it’s nice to be able to sleep with your partner no matter what.

Let me know your thoughts in the comments!