11 Orgasm Control Ideas To Drive Your Slave Crazy

Ready for some hot orgasm control ideas?

Orgasm control is such a thrill and power exchange for couples in a female led relationship.

Now you’re probably thinking that orgasm control is the same thing as orgasm denial, but they are slightly different.

Orgasm denial is just what it sounds like – denying your slave his orgasm.

Orgasm control is very similar, but is more about controlling his orgasm – meaning how he strokes and how he cums.

And it’s a great activity for your FLR because there are so many fun things to do.

That’s why I created this little list so you can have some naughty fun this weekend!

1. Jerk it at work!

From now on your slave will only jerk his dick under your direct supervision.

This means he will only have a set amount of time per week (or per month if you are feeling cruel) to rub his little clit.

It is up to you to allow him to jerk outside the cage or not, but it’s more fun if you make him jerk with the cage on.

One thing you can do to make him really frustrated is jerk off his dick for a few minutes before you send him off to work every morning.

Not only does this completely frustrate him to start off his day, but will also make him think of you throughout the day!

And to make matters worse, send him to the bathroom during his lunch break to get a few strokes in!

Make him really get into it and BEG you for that orgasm 🙂

2. Play red light green light

Another fun game to play is red light green light. It’s very similar to the game that you played as a kid.

When you say green light your slave is allowed to stroke his dick.

When you say red light, he must stop stroking at once or you will slap his balls.

Keep playing over and over again until you are amused to your satisfaction.

Obviously he will not be able to cum without your permission.

3. Make him watch JOI porn clips

Another thing you can do is make your slave edge to porn all day long.

Strap him into a chair and pick out some hot JOI porn for him.

He must watch all of the videos you have chosen and follow along to the stroking instructions.

However, he is not allowed to cum.

After an hour or so of this, his dick will be dripping with precum and his balls completely full!

4. Long teasing session

Tie up your slave on the bed so he can’t move at all. Then climb next to him on the bed and cruelly tease his cock.

Alternate between pain and pleasure.

For example, you can alternate between giving him a blowjob and then biting his cock.

Or you can alternate between stroking his cock with your fingers and slapping him.

Tease him over and over again and really let him know that YOU control his orgasm!

Whether you let him cum is up to you…

5. Make him fuck a fake pussy

Another fun thing to do is giving your cuckold slave instructions to “fuck”.

That’s right, I’m talking about a fake pussy here!

Give him a fake pussy to fuck while you tell him how to fuck. For example, you can tell him to go faster or slower.

You can also tell him what position to “fuck” in such as missionary, doggy, etc.

If you don’t have a fake pussy for him to use, you can also use a pillow or stuffed animal – which may actually be an even more humiliating idea!

6. Fuck your legs!

This idea is for all the couples out there who love legs!

Stand up straight and have your cuck kneel down and put his cock between your legs.

Depending on the height difference, his cock will probably fit near your inner thighs.

Next, I want you to stuff his face in your ass and inhale your intoxicating scent.

After that, give him instructions to fuck your legs from that position.

7. Tease him with your feet

Tease your slave with your feet tonight.

I want you to control him with your feet by giving him the most teasing footjob he’s ever received.

Here are a few tips:

• Play with his head a lot with your toes (pinch them or tickle them by rubbing them back and forth)

• Don’t forget his balls too – you can rub them with your toes

• Don’t be afraid to use your soles too!

While you are controlling him with your feet, make him beg like a bitch to cum!

8. Ride him!

Here’s a super fun femdom sex game that you can play

Position yourselves in the cowgirl position.

You will each take turns thrusting into each other 5 times from that position.

Your slave must hold out from an orgasm until you have reached yours. If he cannot, you will punish him by fucking his ass with a strapon!

Ready to play?

9. Fuck your shoe

Make your slave turn a pair of your shoes into his new girlfriend!

Tape one of your shoes over his nose (so he can smell your intoxicating foot scent) and then have him fuck the other one.

Give him instructions on how to fuck it and how fast to go. And don’t forget to order him to inhale your shoe sweat as well!

If you can’t hear him sniffing, it doesn’t count!

I doubt he can last too long doing this idea, but he will have to try in order to please you…

10. Stroke with your panties

Give your husband some jerk off instructions with a pair of your wet panties.

Give him a sexy strip tease and slip off your panties.

Rub the wet crotch onto his face and make him inhale it.

After that, drop the panties onto his crotch and order him to begin stroking with it.

Make him tell you how good it feels and how he wishes he could be fucking your perfect pussy instead.

Oh and give him an extra tease by spitting on his cock while he’s stroking!

11. Ride his face and tease him

Sit on your slave’s face (just like in the 69 position).

Then I want you to start stroking his cock with your hands.

After you have him nice and hard, make a circle with your fist and then order him to begin thrusting into your fist.

Control the speed of his thrusts and his breathing too (with your ass).

Orgasm Control Ideas: Final Thoughts

Overall, controlling your slave’s orgasm is important.

Not only does it teach him obedience, but it’s also a lot of fun!

He should only be able to stroke it and eventually cum to ONLY your command.

He should learn that his dick is now yours and you do with it as you please 🙂

Hope these orgasm control ideas help you have more fun in the near future!

So…which idea was your favorite? Let me know in the comments!