Interested in learning how to cuckold your husband?
The process is super fun and exciting because it will be uncharted waters for your relationship.
The process may seem daunting…I mean how do you even begin to cuckold someone?
Well, my strategy is baby steps. It’s not something that usually happens over night.
It takes time to build up – kind of like letting a pot of chili simmer around all day…
This blog post will cover:
- How to cuckold your husband sensually
- Tips & tricks to turn your husband into a cuck
- The best ways to cuckold your man
Here are 9 fun and easy
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1. Talk about exes
A good way to bring up cuckolding with your partner is to talk about your ex boyfriends.
Gauge his reaction. Does he get excited about it?
Is he secretly hard?
Does he ask you a lot of questions? Or does he really try to ignore the topic?
In general, if he’s really into cuckolding, he will be super interested in the topic and pecker you with a bunch of questions.
In fact, he may even be embarrassed if you confront him directly about it.
And this is a good topic to bring up because like in any relationship, you should bring up your past history at some point – if you want to create a long-term relationship.
2. Reconnect with your exes
If you saw that your husband was very “receptive” when you talked about your exes, there is one thing you can do to really “take it up a notch.”
What I mean here is by reconnecting with your ex (or exes). And this doesn’t have to lead to anything like sex.
It could be something as innocent as messaging them on Facebook or texting them to get coffee or something.
Gauge your boyfriend/husband’s reaction when you casually mention this to him.
Pretty soon he’ll be begging you to go out with MORE of your exes!
3. Watch porn or read erotica together
I find that watching porn together is a great way to talk about your inner desires and fantasies.
For example, you can watch some BBC cuckold porn and see if he gets hard.
Or you can take a more aggressive approach and start stroking his dick while you’re watching cuckold porn together.
Another thing to do is to read erotica together. For example, read a sexy passage (out loud) to him about a wife cuckolding her husband for the first time.
Your sultry voice guiding his budding fantasy will surely create a lot of excitement!
4. Role play
I have always said that roleplaying is always a great idea to practice cuckolding.
For example, you could play a situation where you (the woman) is “cheating” on her husband.
Here are a few fun situations:
1. Your boss asked you to give him a blowjob or you’ll be fired at work
2. You seduce the hot new guy at work
3. You are on vacation and a hot guy starts flirting with you.
Roleplaying together like this not only allows you to “be other people”, but it allows you to explore the cuckold fantasy on a more intimate level.
At the end of your first cuckolding role play session, say something like: “you know what would be hot? If we did something like that one day” and then gauge his reaction.

5. Flirt with other men
Flirting with other men is a great way to begin your journey as a hotwife.
Now there are two ways to do this. You can flirt with other men while your partner is not around or you can flirt with them when he is around.
Now you’re probably wondering why would you flirt if he’s not around? Well, there are a few reasons.
Number one, it’s just good for your self esteem. Being desired by a hot guy just makes you feel good.
Second, it will ease your mindset about being with other men who aren’t your partner.
And finally, you can casually mention it to him later – something like “you know my trainer, Jim? He’s always flirting with me. He gave me another free training session today.”
You could also flirt with men IN FRONT of your partner. I find this to be an interesting tease and quite humiliating as well!
6. Create a tinder profile
Part of the journey of becoming a hotwife is “meeting someone new”
And the best way to do this is create a Tinder profile – or some other app that’s similar.
One thing you can do is eventually swipe profiles together with your partner.
Or better yet, have him eat out your pussy while you’re trying to find someone new to fuck!
When you match with someone, show your husband your naughty text messages with other guys. That will get him super excited and ready to submit as your cuckold!
7. Kiss someone else
Take things up a level in your hotwife journey by kissing someone else.
You can take things simple first by just kissing on the checks.
But eventually you’ll want to get where you kiss them on the lips. Maybe it’s a peck on the lips at first, but eventually, it’ll turn into a deep French kiss.
A great way to do this is going to the bars and flirting (which I discuss next!)
8. Go to the bars to flirt
There’s nothing sexy like going to the bars to flirt with other men
There are two ways to go about this.
First of all, you can go out with your girlfriends while your boyfriend/husband remains at home.
This is particularly fun because he won’t know what is going on over there so his imagination will take over! It’s really a big mind fuck
Of course, you can also tease him by sending him text messages like: I just grinded up against a guy or someone just kissed me.
Second of all, you can go with your husband so he can see you in action flirting with other guys.
9. Flirt with his friends
Another thing that you can do to really cuckold your husband is to flirt with his friends.
It can be something innocent like just commenting on how hot they are to really getting hands on with them (like massaging their necks or playing footsie with them).
Another thing you can do is make very crude sexual innuendos. It’s all fun and games, so see where it takes you!
P.S. check out this post for more ways to flirt with your husband/boyfriend’s friends!
How To Turn Your Husband Into A Cuckold – Final Thoughts
Overall, turning your husband into a cuckold isn’t something that happens overnight.
It’s something that takes time because cuckolding requires a great amount of trust between partners.
So take things slow and try out these ideas and you’ll get there before you know it.
What do you think about this list? Is there something you’d add to it? Let me know in the comments!
Michael says
These are fantastic ideas. My wife and I have done all of these. None of them were planned, at least not by me, but each and every one of them worked on me. My wife started cheating on me just two years into our marriage and has never stopped. I loved her then and I love her today
MyFemdomRules says
Nice! Glad you are enjoying the lifestyle!
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