Controlling Your Submissive: 9 Ways To Dominate Your Husband

Looking for more ways to controlling your submissive husband?

Well, this blog post was written specifically for you! If you are in a femdom marriage, I am a big fan of controlling your husband from beyond the bedroom.

What do I mean by this? I mean, having a little “femdom fun” outside your sex life is a little fun.

Now, there are many different ways to control your husband and this list is by no means comprehensive, but it’s a good starting point for your kinky relationship.

So here are 9 super fun ways to make your husband submit to you!

1. Ask to go

I like this idea because it’s one of the easiest ways to exert yourself as a dom.

I remember when I was in elementary school and you’d always have to ask the teacher for a hall pass to use the bathroom.

Well, I want you to do something similar here.

One of the best ways to control your cuck is through his cock.

Now I’m not only talking about chastity or controlling his masturbation schedule or taking away his porn privileges.

I’m also talking about his bathroom rights too!

Make him ask you permission to use the bathroom while in the house.

Obviously if you are both at work, it can be a little more difficult to ask for permission (you can have him text you for permission)

I like this little rule because it makes sure he asks for permission to use your property to relive his cock!

And you can tease him too by denying him for a few minutes and watching him squirm while he is ready to let loose!

Oh and if you really want to dominate your submissive, you can make him relieve himself in his pants (yep, peeing himself)!

2. Stroke and orgasm

From now on, your slave husband must ask permission to stroke his cock and to cum.

This means he is not allowed to even touch himself without your express permission. And you should only allow him to stroke under your direct supervision.

I like this submissive idea a lot because it teaches him that his cock now belongs to you. And your explicit permission is needed in order to do anything at all like receiving pleasure.

What’s even more funny is when you tell him exactly how to stroke – i.e. how fast to go, when to stop and start, etc.

By controlling his stroking privileges like this, you’ll be able to train your husband into a very obedient slave!

P.S. for more ways to control his cock and orgasm, check out this blog post!

3. Watch porn

In general, I don’t like allowing a slave to watch porn.

However, if he wants to watch porn, he should ask for permission. Second of all, if you do allow him to watch, it is worth the time to curate his content for him.

For example, you will only allow him to watch videos that you have personally picked out.

Or you can trust him to only watch genres that you deem appropriate (like cuckolding or forced-bi or BBC.)

Making him ask permission to watch porn (or rather, earn it was a reward) is a good femdom rule to have around your household.

Also, if you really want to torment and tease your subs, be sure to make him wear a chastity cage (or even a spiked chastity belt) to make the experience that much more frustrating!

4. Spending money

Women have long controlled men by controlling their money.

Why should your cuckold marriage be any different?

As a result, I felt like this should also be on the list. And I think you should take things a step further.

Take ALL of his money and give him a small weekly allowance for necessities like $10 a day for lunch or something like that.

And if he wants to go spend money on things like “drinking with the boys” or buying new clothes, he must ask permission from you first.

Another thing you can do is comb through your husband’s bills and see if he’s spending on unnecessary things like beer or video games, you know stuff that really doesn’t please you.

As I have said a few times before, you must control your man financially, emotionally, and physically!

5. Taking away his “man” clothes

If you want to turn your cuck into a good little sissy, you’ll need to take away his man clothes!

I would recommend conducting a “closet audit” of his clothes and throwing anything you don’t like away.

Then, give him some nice panties or pantyhose or lingerie to wear. Obviously if he works in an office, he has to wear man clothes to work.

But other than that, it should be prohibited from doing so!

Now, if you don’t want to go the sissy route, that’s fine as that fetish/fantasy isn’t for everyone.

But you can control him by making him wear panties or pantyhose once in a while to really fuck with his mind.

As I have mentioned before, one of the best ways to play with your submissive cuck is to fuck around with his mind. It’s so much making him think “what if” haha!

6. Going out with friends

Another thing your slave husband should ask you to do is using his time.

Obviously he should always be at attention to serve you and make your life better.

So if he wants to do things like watch a sports game or go to the bar with his friends, he has to ask you for permission.

Obviously, you should have your own personal lives with your friends/family, but once in a while deny him the chance to go out with his friends to the bar or watch the game.

Instead, make him stay in on a Friday night and serve you instead by eating your pussy all night long!

After all, he could be using that time to build you furniture or shop lingerie with you.

7. Worship your feet

If your man has a big foot fetish, one thing you can really do to tease him is not allow him to worship your feet without your permission.

And you can do this to really tease him to like walking barefoot around the house, or dangling your flip flops in public.

His eyes will be drawn to your feet immediately, but he won’t be able to do anything at all!

Make him get on his knees and BEG like a dog to worship your feet.

Tease him by not allowing him to lick or kiss or suck your toes. Just make him smell your feet at first.

And then finally allow him the bliss of worshiping your feet like the foot slut that he is!

8. Worship your pussy

Worshiping your pussy is a big privilege for a cuck. After all, if he’s not fucking you anymore, eating you out is the only way he can directly give you pleasure!

So one fun way to control your slave is to make him ask permission to eat and worship your pussy.

Do little things to tease him.

For example, you can tell him how horny you are and if only you were so lucky to have a willing tongue nearby

Or you can tell him how badly you want someone to warm up your pussy before a real man fucks you!

9. Sleep in the same bed

A while ago, I wrote a blog post about cuckold sleeping arrangements.

And one of the places I recommend your cuck sleep is in a spare bedroom or on the couch or the floor (next to your bed).

Well, controlling where your sub sleeps is a great way to exert your dominance over him.

One thing you can do that’s humiliating is not allow your cuck to sleep in the same bed as you at night.

For example, you can make him sleep on the floor by the bed or even outside on the couch!

Instead, make him realize how BIG of a privilege it is to sleep in the same bed as you by making him beg and ask permission for it!

Controlling Your Submissive – Final Thoughts

Overall, I hope this blog post was helpful in giving you ideas to control your submissive.

Power exchange is a cornerstone of a femdom/cuckold marriage. The power exchange is really what’s HOT.

And these ideas will help you control all aspects of your sub’s life and really make your sex life great again!

So, do you have anything that you would add to this list or maybe take off? Let me know in the comments! 🙂