Cuckold Birthday Fun: 10 Kinky BDSM Ideas!

Interested in some super kinky BDSM ideas for your partner’s birthday?

Your cuckold slave’s birthday is a big time of the year and should be celebrated as such.

Why have a normal vanilla birthday when you could have a kinky femdom/BDSM birthday?

Femdom birthday celebrations should be a part of your marriage. After all, there’s nothing like a kinky birthday celebration!

Now, there are a lot of different things you can to celebrate his birthday from CBT to foot worship to ruined orgasms. So this little list is designed to get the ball rolling for you.

Here are 10 super kink BDSM ideas and games to try with your cuckold on his next birthday!

1. Eat cake off your feet

I generally don’t have a fetish when it comes to food in the bedroom.

No spreading chocolate or caramel or whipped cream on your partner for me (usually). BUT when it’s birthday time, things are a little different!

One of and humiliating thing you can do is make your husband/boyfriend eat his birthday cake from your feet!

This is also great if he has a foot fetish.

So here’s what you are going to do.

Get a slice of his birthday cake and then put it on the floor. Make him kneel on all fours like a dog and watch you crush it with your barefeet.

Crush the cake until it’s all over your feet. Then sit on the couch or a chair and order him to eat his cake from your feet!

If you don’t want to use your feet you can also crush the cake with your heels or sneakers.

Note: obviously this can get a little messy so it’s best to do this over newspapers or some kind of covering so it doesn’t get all over your floor.

2. Birthday spanks!

Another fun thing you can do is bring the pain!

That’s right, I’m talking about birthday spanks 🙂

The amount of spanks will depend on his cage. For example, you can divide his age by 2 to determine the number of spanks he will get!

For example, if he’s 50 years old today, spank him 25 times!

Get a wooden paddle (or even a metal one!) and have him bend over and present his ass to you.

And then you will take the paddle and spank his ass as hard as you can! Don’t stop until you deliver ALL of his birthday spanks…no matter how much he begs 🙂

Talk about submissive discipline on his birthday, right? haha

3. Reward him with an orgasm?

How often do you allow your cuckold husband to cum?

If you have a soft spot as a domme, you can do something nice for him on his birthday…like giving him a little reward.

That’s right, for his birthday you can give him one long awaited orgasm.

And there are a few ways you can go about this. For example, you can let him choose how he gets to cum just this one time per year.

He can choose to fuck you, get a blowjob, get a footjob, etc. any way he wants it.

Or you can leave it up to chance and spin a wheel and see what kind of orgasm he can get from:

• Regular orgasm
• Ruined orgasm
• Tease and denial (no orgasm)
• Post orgasm torture!

Or you can just choose for him depending on your mood! I’m a big fan of post orgasm torture (POT) for his birthday!

4. A little bit of freedom

Another thing you can do for your slave’s birthday is to let him out of the cage for this one day.

And there are certain rules you can attach to this freedom too.

For example, you can have it as a rule that he is not allowed to stroke his dick. Another rule is that he can stroke, but can’t cum.

This is a nice little gesture to give your slaveboy for his birthday because you obviously wouldn’t do this on normal occasions!

But if you are going to do this (let him out of the cage), be sure he is locked up for at least 2 – 3 weeks beforehand so that his cock is sore in the cage and ready to stretch a little!

5. Erotic tease and denial

One of my favorite ideas from this list is to give him a long tease and denial session.

That’s right, you are going to tie him to the bed and edge him over and over again until he’s begging you like crazy to cum.

I want to see his balls big and blue/black from all the teasing and torment you are inflicting on him.

And for the final edge, I want you to edge him so bad that just blowing on his cock with your mouth can send him over the edge with a terrible ruined orgasm!

How’s that for a birthday present?

6. Lock him up for another year!

Okay this idea is so cruel, but I had to put it on this list because I know some of my readers love this stuff!

You know if you really think about it, what’s the best gift that you could ever give your cuckold?

That’s right! The gift of chastity!

But this gift is going to have a little twist…

On his birthday you are going to present him with a little box. What’s in the box?

Well, it’s always been a super hot fantasy of mine…

Every year on your birthday, your wife will unlock you from the cage and put you into a SMALLER one!

After all, if you’ve been spending a lot of time in a cage, your cock will naturally shrink.

Sounds like a super hot fantasy, right? 🙂

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7. Kicks to the balls

For all of the big pain sluts out there, this idea is for you!

Similar to the spanking game, you can give your slave ball kicks as his birthday present!

You can do the same thing: for example, divide his age by a number (i.e. 2 or 3) and that’s how many kicks he will get.

If he’s 30, he will get 10 – 15 ball kicks under that scenario!

And you can play a fun little game out of it too.

For example, you can switch out footwear while kicking him!

For the first few kicks, use a strong pair of boots.

After that, you will switch to a pair of sexy heels. Then you will put on some gym sneakers.

And finally, you will grace him with the opportunity to take bare foot kicks!

8. Candle wax play!

This is a super hot BDSM idea that I haven’t really discussed in the past: I’m talking about candle wax play!

Here are two super cruel ideas that I came up with…

First, you can insert a small candle into his peehole (make sure he is hard).

Then you will light the candle and watch him scream as the candlewax drips down onto his cock!

Another thing you can do is make him stick his ass in the air (think the downward facing dog yoga position).

Then you will insert a candle into his sissyhole (asshole) and light the candle. You’ll sing happy birthday to him as the wax drips down into his sensitive ass!

So…what do you think of these candlewax ideas? Too extreme or something you want to try?

9. Mark him up!

Another fun BDSM idea is to have your cuckold husband get a tattoo every year on his birthday to show his submission to you.

Some good tattoo ideas include:

• Getting your name tattooed on his body

• Have the word “cuck” tattooed over his cock

• Get a symbol or a number to symbolize the number of years he has been locked in chastity for you

Sounds pretty kinky, right? 🙂

10. Mind fuck him

One of my favorite things to do to a cuck is to mind fuck him.

And mind fucking him on his birthday is just so kinky…

So how are you going to really fuck with him?

Well, present him with two options:

Say you will let him out of the cage today or you will keep him locked up for another year without an orgasm.

See which one he chooses? Will he be a loyal chastity cuckold for you? 🙂

Birthday BDSM Ideas – Final Thoughts

Overall, there are a ton of fun BDSM ideas you can try on your slave for his birthday.

Hopefully this list will give you a bunch of fun ideas and a great time on his next bday.

So…what do you think of this list? Is there anything you’d add at all?

Let me know in the comments!