How To Get Your Wife To Cuckold You: 6 Things You Must Do

“I want my wife to cuckold me. Do you have any tips?”

That’s one of the most common questions I get when I see my DMs…

So…you are interested in learning how to get your wife to cuckold you?

I get it, you’ve probably dreamed about cuckolding for a long time now. You’ve fantasized about it at work for years and you’ve watched all the porn and read all the erotica.

But there’s just one little problem (well big problem)…you don’t know how to tell your wife and convince her to cuckold you.

And to be honest, it’s kind of an uncomfortable subject to discuss because you are sharing your deepest fantasies with someone.

But at the same time, it’s also exciting because once you do agree to move ahead, you’ll be able to finally live out the lifestyle that you so desperately want!

So…you’re probably wondering how do you tell your wife that you want her to fuck another man in front of you?

How To Get Your Wife To Cuckold You

Well, don’t worry because I have just the tips to get her on another man’s cock!

This blog post will cover:

• How to convince your wife to cuckold you
• Getting your wife in the right mindset to cuckold you
• Steps & tips to getting your wife to become a hotwife

1. Don’t be pushy

Step one in convincing your wife to cuckold you is to not be pushy.

The number one thing you don’t want to do is be pushy.

This is THE most important tip I have when it comes to getting your wife to cuckold you.

This is so important so I’ll say it a THIRD time! DO NOT BE PUSHY!

If she said she’ll think about it or if she needs time to digest this, don’t keep asking her about the subject every 2 minutes like a kid trying to get his mom to take him to the candy store.

As you can imagine, cuckolding is a pretty unique fetish and not something most women (or most people in general) have been exposed to.

As a result, it’s likely a shock to her system.

Most women will need time to digest this and really think about what it means for their relationship/marriage/lifestyle.

Guide her patiently, but don’t try to push anything.

There’s a fine line between encouraging your wife to cuckold you and pushing her towards it.

If you try to push her towards your fantasies, you’ll only hurt the cause.

2. Start talking about your fantasies

Another thing you have to do on a regular basis is talk about your fantasies together.

Obviously communication is the foundation for a long and happy femdom/cuckold marriage.

This is a great way to convince your wife to begin her cuckolding journey.

So, when should you talk about your fantasies?

Well, I find that the best way is to do it after sex. You are both relaxed and it’s the perfect time to talk about what really floats your boat.

Don’t be shy too. I know it’s hard, but a real partner wouldn’t make you feel embarrassed about your deepest sexual fantasies.

In fact, they will want to create them and experience them with you.

3. Start small

In general, I don’t recommend dumping the whole idea of cuckolding onto your partner right away – especially if you haven’t played around with other kinks.

Instead, I think it’s better to work your way up there after experimenting around with different fetishes.

For example, simple things like letting her take the lead in the bedroom can go a long way.

Things like introducing foot fetish play in the bedroom is also a good idea.

And finally, I think that experimenting around with chastity is also a great idea.

In fact, I would say chastity is the gateway to cuckolding for several reasons.

Namely, it gets her used to not using your dick anymore and it allows her to be in charge too.

As a result, I would highly recommend playing around with other fetishes for a bit and then drop the bomb about cuckolding!

Once she gets addicted to a kinky sex life, cuckolding will seem like a “natural progression”!

4. Get her ready!

Okay…now that your wife/girlfriend knows you want her to fuck another guy what do you do?

Again, baby steps are the key to success here.

I find that it is best to desensitize her to the idea of cuckolding.

So…how do you do that?

Well, there are many small things you can do with your wife to get her ready to start cuckolding you.

For example, one thing you can do is watch cuckold or interracial porn together.

It’s actually a pretty good idea because you can masturbate each other in bed while you watch. And it will give her a good idea of what your ultimate fantasy is.

The more she sees it, the more she’ll believe it!

Another thing you can do is read erotica together (like out loud to one another).

This is great if you want to eat her pussy while she reads out a sexy sex scene from the book!

And finally, you can start roleplaying too. This is a very smart way to get her interested in cuckolding you.

For example, you can pretend to be a BBC and seduce her at the bar…

5. People watch!

Another fun thing you can do when you go out (i.e. to the bars or the restaurant) is play the “what if” game.

It’s a pretty simple game.

You are going to go out to a public place like a restaurant or bar at night. And then you are going to people watch.

Play a game and see who you think your wife likes. Point out guys who are checking her out and talk about how she would seduce him to take him home for a one night stand!

And if things get steamy enough, you can dare her to approach someone!

It can be simply to say hi or maybe if she’s feeling adventurous enough she will flirt with him!

The first time you experience this is always the most exciting!

6. Let her come to the final conclusion herself

If there’s only one piece of advice that I can give you about getting your wife into cuckolding, it would be this:

Let her come to the final conclusion by herself.

And this comes back to the whole idea of not being pushy.

People are much more likely to be receptive to an idea of they come to the conclusion themselves.

I know it is hard (especially since this is something you’ve probably dreamed about for so long), but the key is patience. If you follow these steps, you’ll get her on another man’s dick sooner or later!

Readers, what do you think about my advice? Is there something you would add or remove from this list?

Let me know in the comments!

And feel free to share your cuckolding experience with your wife/partner and how you got her onboard this exciting lifestyle!

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• How to answer her objections to cuckolding and get over them

• Fun activities you can do together to get her interested in cuckolding

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• Where to find safe and reliable bulls to play with

• Cuckold date types

• The keys to a happy cuckold relationship

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