Cuckolding benefits? What’s that?!
If you are a vanilla couple, that’s probably exactly what you are wondering.
Cuckolding is often thought/seen as cheating by many people, BUT it is not.
Cuckolding is about power exchange, trust, and being kinky. It has nothing to do about cheating.
In fact, I have written about the benefits of cuckolding for women in the past in this blog post.
But in this post, I want to talk about cuckolding from the experience of the man. More specifically, I want to address WHY cuckolding is a great thing for you and your marriage.
In fact, cuckolding can often re-ignite your marriage if you are finding yourselves “in a slump.”
Here are 8 incredible cuckolding benefits for men…
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1. More intimacy with your wife
One of the very unlikely benefits of cuckolding is that you become more intimate with your wife (or girlfriend).
It sounds crazy, but it’s true. You become more intimate not only on an emotional level, but also a physical level as well.
Let’s talk about the emotional level because that’s probably more important.
First of all, you’ll probably be super nervous for the first time. Your heart will beat super fast and your palms will be sweaty.
But when you hear and see her moan for another man’s cock and see how much she enjoys it, you’ll develop a deeper bond.
As you hold her hand, you’ll experience what she’s experiencing. There’s nothing like watching your wife get pleasured by another man.
And when you talk about the experience after, you’ll become closer. That’s the great thing about cuckolding: it brings couples closer together (at least when it’s built on a solid relationship foundation).
The other thing is that it really brings you closer physically.
If you’ve never had sex with your wife after another man, then you are missing out!
Her pussy will be super warm with his cum, so you’ll slide in easy and there will already be a mess waiting for you.
Or you can go the more traditional route and clean a nice creampie from your wife’s pussy.
Either way, the physical intimacy from this experience is like nothing you’ve seen before!
2. More trust
Cuckolding builds TRUST in a relationship.
A lot of people say cuckolding destroys marriage, but it really doesn’t – well, as long as you have a solid foundation.
The great thing about cuckolding is you don’t have to worry about your partner cheating.
She has your permission to sleep with other men (and you should discuss who she sleeps with too).
There’s no wondering about where she is or wanting to check her phone.
There’s nothing quite like being able to trust your partner with anything and everything and know at the end of the night she’ll still love you.
In many ways, the trust is freeing because you literally don’t have to worry about her cheating.
3. Better sex life (like WAY better)
The great thing about cuckolding is your sex life will be on another level (even if you are locked in chastity).
Your sex life is about to be much more kinky and adventurous.
In fact, you’ll probably be hard and leaking most of the days now!
Not only will your wife learn new moves with her partner(s), but just having sex with your wife after she’s been with someone else is a real big turn on.
And cuckolding opens up the world to such great cuckold sex positions.
Now I’m not saying your relationship should revolve around your sex life, but having a robust sex life (which most cuckold couples have) is a great thing.
You have something to look forward to after work or a bad day!
4. Pleasure and denial
One of the great benefits of cuckolding is that it usually comes with denial and chastity.
In fact, I have often said that chastity is the gateway to cuckolding 🙂
Being denied by your wife while she has fun with another man is exhilarating.
If you’re a big fan of power exchange (or at least interested in the idea), then you will love cuckolding.
It sounds crazy, but absolutely surrendering yourself and your pleasures to your wife is a beautiful thing. Denial is WAY better than cumming every day when you want.
It is absolutely liberating and pretty soon you’ll crave it…crave being under her control and completely locked in chastity!
5. The thrill of watching
There’s nothing like the thrill of watching (and stroking) as another man fucks your wife.
If you haven’t done this before, you are missing out on one of the great joys of life.
Watching your wife is a small part of the entire cuckold experience, but it’s also one of the most pleasurable.
It doesn’t matter if you’re watching through the closet or right beside your wife, the experience is unlike anything you will ever experience.
Okay…technically watching your wife is voyeurism, but it is still part of the cuckold experience 🙂
Related: Where to watch your wife have sex!
6. Hot home made porn
The great thing about cuckolding is you FINALLY have someone with spare hands to create some hot homemade porn!
That’s right, as the cuckold, it is up to you to shoot sexy videos that you and your wife can enjoy later.
And not only that, but many couples have created OnlyFan accounts to promote their lifestyle (and make some money on the side).
Creating homemade porn is a cuckold bucket list item for any couple regardless if you are into cuckolding or not.
In fact, here are a few hot homemade sex tape ideas…
1. Book a hotel room and shoot a sexy cuckold sex tape with your bull
2. Film your wife and her partner fucking in a public place – i.e. her giving him a blowjob in a parking lot in the middle of nowhere
3. Make out with another man on a date and then send the video to your husband
7. Exploration of kinks
The great part of cuckolding (and a female led relationship – FLR in general) is the exploration of kinks.
After you try cuckolding, nothing will seem “weird” for you anymore.
You’ll be more willing to try new things like watersports/toilet training, public humiliation, gang bangs, and all sorts of kinky things.
And let’s be honest, regular vanilla sex is just SO boring. When you are an adventurous kinkster, you will never have a boring sex life again!
Here are some of the fetishes you can try with your new, kinkier marriage:
- Ballbusting
- Foot fetish
- Chastity
- Watersports
- Breath play
- Public humilation
- …and so much more!
Related post: 8 fetishes you need to try in your wife led marriage!
8. Pleasing your wife
And the best part of cuckolding is that you’ll finally be able to please your wife…well indirectly of course.
Cuckolding is very hot for a woman. She may deny it at first or even be apprehensive, but once you see how wet she is, you’ll realize how much she loves it!
Many women women really do end up loving the idea of cuckolding. It’s a big turn on for them to sleep with someone else who isn’t their husband/boyfriend/partner.
And it’s also a big turn on in case you have a small dick haha…
Your wife deserves to have pleasure, right? Well, this is the best way to give it to her, no joke!
And eventually, her pleasure becomes YOUR pleasure. It’s hard to explain, but you’ll know what I mean when you finally experience it.
So…should you consider cuckolding?
Well, cuckolding isn’t something you decide right on the spot.
It is a big lifestyle change for any couple. As a result, it is very important to talk to your partner about it and discuss any concerns beforehand.
If done improperly, cuckolding can destroy marriages. As a result, you need to have a strong foundational marriage/relationship.
Cuckolding Benefits – Final Thoughts
Overall, there are a lot of benefits of cuckolding for men.
Your sex life will be the most interesting it will ever be and you’ll have an even closer relationship with your wife.
So readers, what do you think? Was there something about cuckolding that you really enjoy that you think I missed out on?
Dara says
Being a cuck is a alpha move is outside validation that your wife is attractive and that your not over protective or scared of her leaving you
MyFemdomRules says
Yep! Totally agree!
John says
Wonderfully put! I’ve long extolled the benefits of cuckolding…and you’ve hit on the major points.
Once we discussed—and decided—that cuckolding was right for us, we entered a new phase of our marriage. We are so much more in love, so much more intimate, and so incredibly happy and fulfilled.
I fully believe that cuckolding is the most natural and beneficial type of marriage!
MyFemdomRules says
Thanks!
Glad you two have been living the dream life. Sounds like so much fun 🙂
John says
Thanks! I am more fulfilled than I ever dreamed I could be.
I won’t lie, it hasn’t always been easy and fun. There’s been a lot of soul searching and even more communication. And that’s the key: cuckolding—when done right—promotes a level of communication and understand far beyond what many couples could ever dream of.
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