10 Cock And Ball Torture (CBT) Ideas For Your FLR

Looking for some naughty cock and ball torture ideas for your female led relationship?

Well, you’ve come to the right place!

Cock and ball torture (CBT) is a great way to add some flavor and spice to your relationship.

Teasing and edging your husband/boyfriend is fun and all, but sometimes it’s fun to make him hurt a little bit. After all, pain is pleasure, right? 🙂

10 Femdom Cuck And Ball Torture (CBT) Ideas You Need To Try!

This blog post will cover:

• Femdom CBT ideas for both beginners and advanced kinksters
• How to safely ballbust your slave husband, boyfriend, and/or cuckold
• How to use CBT to give him “pleasurable pain”

But first, something important…

Safety First!

Like with ballbusting, you really can’t talk about CBT without talking about safety first.

After all, the kinks that we all love should be safe and consensual.

If you aren’t very experienced with CBT as a couple, I would recommend going very easy at first and then work your way up.

Also, be sure to have a safe word in case things get too intense or you need a temporary break.

As long as you exercise proper caution like this and use common sense, you’ll be able to avoid any injuries or permanent damage.

Alright, with that out of the way, let’s talk about all the fun ways you can torture your husband’s/boyfriend’s cock and balls!

1. Attach clothespins on him

Clothespins are always a fun way to bring a little pain into your sex life!

And they are really inexpensive too, which makes it something anyone can try. That’s why it’s one of my favorite cock and ball torture ideas.

So here’s what I want you to do…

I want you to attach a bunch of clothespins to your slave’s cock and balls (at least 15 – 20 of them).

Or if you want to be more cruel, you can make him attach the clothespins himself!

For example, you will give him a certain amount of time (say a 30 to 40 seconds) to put 20 clothespins on his cock/balls or you’ll peg him with a strapon!

Once you have the clothespins on, make him wear them for at least an hour or two while he does some chores around the house.

One way to really fuck with him while all the clothespins are on is to order him stroke his cock (it will be pretty painful with all the clothespins on)!

He probably won’t be enjoying that very much…

Or if you want to be cruel, you can slap his cock/balls. Now that will REALLY sting!

And when he wants to take them off, you will happily oblige…but with a twist!

Slap them off with your hands or a riding crop – but fair warning this is really painful so don’t do it unless you know he is an experienced pain slut!

2. Build a cockboard

Another fun CBT activity you can do is build a cock board. What is this?

Well, it’s basically a board that goes over his waist (while he lies down) that has a small cut out for his cock and balls.

This provides a flat surface for you to stomp on his cock/balls without much interference!

Once his cock/balls are on the board, they are very vulnerable and easy to squish around!

And it’s kind of just fun to squish your balls underneath your toes/soles. It’s kind of hard to describe, but it’s VERY fun (trust me on this one hehe).

You can use your feet or even your shoes or heels to stomp on them!

If you are doing this, I would highly recommend using oil to lube up his cock and balls otherwise the board may cause some chaffing.

The oil also helps ensure that you won’t accidentally trap his balls and cause a ton of pain.

Anyways, you can also use the cockboard for a variety of ways to deliver him pain with your feet! In fact, you can even use it to give him a painful footjob 🙂

3. Stomp on his dick

Okay, not everyone has a cock board (or has the money/skills to build one).

As a result, this idea will be a similar CBT idea, but on a more affordable budget!

Instead of building a cockboard, just have your slave kneel with his cock over the coffee table (or a low chair).

This will allow you to stomp on his dick (or his balls) in a similar fashion.

Now his dick can obviously take more punishment than his balls, so you can be a little more aggressive here!

Also, if you have him kneel over a chair, you can do “butt drops”.

What’s a butt drop you ask?

Well, I’m glad you asked!

Basically you hover over the chair like you’re about to sit down. His cock will be right on the chair so that when you sit down on it (or drop yourself down), your ass will squish his cock!

Another fun cock and ball torture technique is to “trap” his balls between your heels in this position.

What do I mean by that?

Well, put on some heels and put your foot on the coffee table or chair.

Then, pop your heel up and slide his balls between the heel of your foot and the sole of the heel (i.e. shoe).

Now you have free reign to apply pressure onto his balls!

Obviously don’t provide too much pressure or you’ll seriously hurt him, but just give him enough for it to be uncomfortable.

4. Handjob but with a twist!

Has your slave been begging to cum? Has he been kind of annoying you with his begging?

Well, this cock and ball torture idea is perfect for this scenario!

I call it the handjob with a twist (pun intended)!

This is a great way to give him a painful and fun ruined orgasm!

So what you’re going to do is give him a handjob, but not a regular handjob. After all, you have to make it fun, right?

Give him a handjob with one hand while your other hand is constantly squeezing and crushing his balls.

Obviously you don’t want to do any permanent damage, but what you want to do is cause discomfort for him.

You’ll have to adjust your grip at times – but have a safe word and be ready to relinquish your grip if/when it comes to that.

Also, don’t be afraid to twist his cock/balls around to cause a different kind of painful senastion!

If you want both hands free to squeeze his balls, you can also give a blowjob instead.

In fact, I think that’s even better because you can squeeze one ball in each hand while giving him head!

I bet he’ll never ask for another orgasm after this experience! Or maybe he will because he’s a pain slut…

5. Slap the cum outta him!

I always found being slapped by a beautiful woman to be so sexy.

Now usually this means being slapped in the face, but I’m going to talk about something different here…slapping your man in the balls/dick!

That’s right. Let’s talk about slapping his balls first.

Slapping can be very painful on the balls so go soft first and work your way up.

Order your slave to hold up his hard cock out of the way.

Then take turns slapping his balls back and forth with the tips of your fingers. If you use your palm, you’ll probably hit his thighs instead.

Slap them back and forth with alternating hands.

Do this until he is close to cumming!

And when he is about to cum, switch to slapping his cock instead.

What you want to do is aim for the top (i.e. his glans) or near the middle. You can slap his cock harder than his balls so go at it!

A fun CBT technique to try is the “handjob” slap. This is basically when you stroke his cock with one hand and use your other hand to slap the head of his cock.

It’s a great way to mix the pain and pleasure.

6. Tease him with your heels

One thing you can do to really intimate your husband/boyfriend during a cock and ball torture session is to wear heels.

Nothing sounds more intimidating than hearing a pair of heels click clack against the floor knowing they can cause your balls damage!

For this idea you will have him lie down in front of the couch.

Then you will sit above him and use your heels to give him a painful shoejob!

I would highly recommend using heels to do this because you can use the semi-sharp heel to “stab” at his cock/balls.

One technique is to use the heel to play around with his head. Rub your heel over his pee hole! It’s super sensitive so it doesn’t require a lot of force to be uncomfortable or cause pain.

Another thing you can do is “stab” his balls with your pointy heels! Obviously you don’t really want to truly stab at them – so I guess the more appropriate word is to grind against them with your heels.

7. Punch himself?

Why are you punching yourself?

That’s one thing my older cousin said to me when he used to bully me when we were younger (he was quite a bit older).

Anyways there’s a reason why I bring it up…

One fun thing I love doing to slaves is making them prove their loyalty to you.

And this is a great CBT game to accomplish this.

Have your slave put on boxing gloves (you can buy some cheap ones online).

Then inform him that he is to punch is balls 10 times for you!

Make him count each one and then thank you for the privilege after.

If you don’t think he’s trying to punch himself hard enough, restart the count from zero. Each of the 10 punches must be hard AND painful!

This is a great mind fuck because the human brain is conditioned to protect itself. So when you are telling him to hurt himself, his brain is trying to fight it.

It’s a BIG mind trip!

8. Which one hurts more?

I love this game so much because it allows you to maintain eye contact with your slave while you are causing him pain and discomfort!

Sit between your slave’s legs and one ball in each hand. Roll them around and then start applying pressure – not too hard, but enough to make him wince and moan in pain.

Then tease him and ask him which one hurts more. If he says the right one, start applying more pressure to the left one and taunt him by saying “are you sure”

It’s a fun game to play because with both hands free, you can maintain eye contact and see the real pain and fear in his eyes!

In fact, to really drive him crazy, make out with him while you are squeezing his balls. See if he can concentrate on playing with your tongue while you’re playing with his balls!

9. Butt bombs!

I call these “butt bombs” for a simple reason – and they are incredibly fun!

Do you ever see your husband/boyfriend admire your booty from behind? Well, make him admire it from above!

Have him lie down (on his back) on the bed. Then squat over his cock/balls like you’re about to ride him in reverse cowgirl.

I would say hovering a foot above his balls is a good starting point.

Then, I want you to drop your ass from that height onto his balls.

Now, obviously you don’t want to use your full force, but just enough to crush his balls and cause him a little pain.

Try 10 butt drops for your first time and see if he can take them all!

If he can accomplish that, be sure to give him a little reward for being such a big pain slut!

10. Throw balls at him

Another fun game is to throw balls at your cuck’s…well balls!

Have you ever played that game at the carnival where you throw balls at the bowling balls lined up against the wall to win a prize?

Well, it’s kind of similar here!

Now obviously you don’t want to use anything like golf balls or even baseballs or tennis balls.

What you want to use is something soft like one of those soft rubber stress balls or even a ping pong ball.

Take the ball and throw it at his balls for fun. Have him stand at attention a few feet back while you use him as target practice!

If you are going with the ping pong ball route, you can use the paddle to hit the ball.

That will reduce your accuracy, but that’s just part of the fun in my opinion!

Femdom Cock and ball torture ideas – Final Thoughts

Overall, cock and ball torture is a great fetish to explore in your wife led marriage. Hopefully these femdom CBT ideas give you plenty of fun this weekend.

After all, it’s nice to mix pain and pleasure together because variety is the spice of life!

So, are you interested in trying some of these naughty games with your partner this weekend?

Which ideas did you like the most?

Let me know in the comments!