What Is It Like Being A Cuckold? What You Should Know!

What is it like being a cuckold?

That’s a big question many men have if they have never experienced their wife with another man.

After all, fantasy can be different than reality.

As a result, it is something I want to cover in this blog post. But I first have to say that everyone has a different emotional reaction to cuckolding.

That’s why I think it’s so special – because it gets you off in different ways.

As a result, this isn’t a complete list, but more of a starting point of what to expect when your wife cuckolds you for the first time.

So…lets delve right into it!

What do you feel?

What do you feel as a cuckold?

That’s probably one of the most asked questions I get.

The truth is…everyone feels something differently.

But everyone feels a rush of emotion. It’s hard to describe because there are so many conflicting emotions at once that kind of confuse you.

It’s really amazing to be perfectly honest.

You’ll feel excitement as the thing you have been fantasizing about for so long is finally going to happen.

You’ll also feel horniness. If you’re locked in chastity, you’ll be straining against the cage and leaking A LOT!

Some people feel jealously too. A lot of people say they don’t but they are lying. Look, it’s perfectly fine to feel jealous, it’s a normal (and honestly healthy part) of being in a relationship.

As I have said many times before, cuckolding IS NOT cheating, but that doesn’t mean you still don’t get jealous when your wife is with another man.

In fact, for some people that source of jealously is actually becomes a very big turnon!

But one of the great things about being in a cuckold relationship is the trust you have built with your partner. You know they would never really cheat on you.

One of the great things about being a cuckold is you get hit with all these powerful emotions at once. It’s kind of like sensory overload but mentally instead of physically.

It’s very intoxicating from a sexual standpoint.

Seeing her get off with someone else

One of the interesting parts of cuckolding is the voyerism aspect of it

You get to watch your wife have sex with another man (unless it’s just the two of them together).

Literally watching her ride his cock is an amazing feeling. You’ll get to hear her moan for another man.

You’ll get to watch another man touch her, kiss her, and cum in her.

And you’ll get to see how much she really enjoys it. She may be shy at first, but women eventually warm up to the idea of cuckolding.

And many of the things you’ll see can’t be described. You have to see it.

You have to see her body language. The way she is when she is with him.

Trust me, her body language will change when she’s around her bull. That’s a big part of the turn on of cuckolding.

In fact, she may even involve you in the fun! After all, there are so many fun cuckold sex positions to try.

Dirty messes

One thing that every cuckold should experience (i.e. on your cuckold bucketlist) is another man cumming in his wife/girlfriend!

It’s just an amazing experience – especially for the first time.

You’ll see your wife’s bull breathe heavier as he gets closer and closer to orgasm.

Then you’ll watch in amazement as he finally cums in her and empty his balls in her.

Watching the cum ooze out of her pussy is one of the greatest sights you’ll ever see (aside from your kids being born of course)!

And then comes the fun part…

What do to with the creampie?

Well, you can clean it up like a good cuck. That’s usually where most couples go. Cleaning up after the man who just came in your wife!

Talk about humiliating, right? 🙂

But if you want to go the more intimate route you can have sex with your wife directly after.

There’s just something raw and dirty about having sex with your wife after another man has sex with her.

Her pussy will already be nice and warm and wet for you. And you’ll be able to slide in with ease.

But be warned…the sex will be super intense!

The intimacy

One of the things that really stands out about cuckolding is the intimacy.

And I’m talking about the intimacy after a very intense cuckolding experience.

You’ll be able to really experience intimate and tender moments with your wife after a night of fun.

While you’re cuddling in bed together, you should talk about the experience. After all, communication is the most important thing to a long and happy cuckold marriage.

What worked for you? What didn’t work? What did you really like?

And what do you want to try next time?

It’s very fun to be able to talk about that with your partner while you’re cuddling in bed together.

Cuckolding creates an intimacy in your marriage that you cannot achieve in any other way.

The day-to-day fun…

Of course one of the best things about cuckolding is the day to day life of it all – the “daily grind” if you will haha.

And I’m not saying this to be smart or anything, but it’s really the little things that matter.

Getting denied and having your cock locked in a cage is one of the great joys of life.

You’ll love running errands and doing chores for your wife.

You’ll love going out to the restaurants and bars and clubs and helping her find a sexy bull.

And you’ll love helping her plan out her dates, picking out dresses, shopping with her, and anything else she needs.

It’s really the day to day stuff that you’ll enjoy the most in my opinion.

After all, there’s more to a cuckold relationship than just sex!

The teasing

The day to day teasing from your wife will also be a new experience.

The teasing can take place in a number of ways.

For example, it may be a text from her that her co-worker or the cute trainer at the gym was hitting on her.

Or it can be a little more crude like her sending text messages or pictures/video that other men have sent her.

It can even be pictures of the two of them together at a nice restaurant!

The teasing can take place even more directly. For example, she could tell you how much she wants a real man’s cock.

Or she could tease you by letting you know that a new boy toy will be destroying her pussy this weekend.

The possibilities that come with teasing are endless!

The teasing is just part of the territory that comes with being a cuckold. In fact, if you are locked in chastity you will often find yourself with constant blue balls!

And that’s not necessarily a bad thing at all!

Frustration and blue balls

Part of being a cuckold is being teased and denied (as I’ve previously discussed).

And this means you will often have blue balls.

And not just any blue balls. I’m talking about BIG BLUE BALLS!

The kind of blue balls where your stomach fills up and it feels like you have gas in there that you can’t get rid of…

The kind of blue balls where you are seriously sexually frustrated 🙂

It’s a weird thing, right?

You actually CRAVE it.

Denial is sexy. The more your wife denies you, the more you crave it. It’s like a drug.

But don’t worry, a little frustration and denial never hurt anyone. In fact, the frustration will propel you to become an even better and more caring husband for your wife.

So it’s really a win-win situation if you think about it.

Focused on being a better husband

One of the things you’ll notice when you become a cuckold is how you’re a MUCH better husband for your wife.

You’ll start to anticipate or even predict her needs and wants.

You will want to start to do chores and errands for her and all the little things you hated doing before.

Even just seeing her wake up in the morning turns into a beautiful morning ritual.

The reason is that you know she’s desirable…that there are other men after her.

If you have a strong cuckold foundation, you’ll know she would never leave you. But at the same time, it still makes you think about it a little in the back of your head.

And that’s good because it keeps you honest and wanting to “win her back”. It makes you do all the things you would do for her when you first met.

That’s why cuckolding makes husbands (and boyfriends) so much more caring, intimate, and better.

What Is It Like Being A Cuckold – Final Thoughts

Overall, being a cuckold is a very fulfilling experience.

There’s just so much you feel and experience when you get cuckolded (especially for the first time).

And I am a firm believer that most cuckold couples are MUCH happier than vanilla couples.

Hopefully this post gave you a little insight to what it is like being a cuckold.

So, do you think I missed anything on this list? Let me know in the comments!