10 Signs You May Be A Cuckold: The Ultimate Beta Man

What are some signs that you may be a cuckold?

That’s usually one of the most common questions I get asked on Twitter or on my blog.

So I wanted to take some time to answer this question because it is a little complex.

Not everyone becomes a cuckold the same way. Some people are just born that way.

And some couples progress toward cuckolding just to experiment around and then find out they really love it.

So, I wrote this blog post to help identify:

• If you are a good candidate to being a cuckold
• Whether you are ready for cuckolding or not
• How to find out if your boyfriend is a cuck

Anyways, another reason why I wrote this post is to help guys identify if they may be a cuckold already but just don’t realize it.

And this is because things aren’t always so clear when you are so close to the situation.

Have you ever looked at a couple and knew something was going to happen?

May be you knew he was going to propose or maybe she was going to break up with him. The signs are always more obvious when you are a third party looking from far away.

However, the signs are not always as evident when you are so close to the action

So here are the 10 signs that you may be a cuckold!

1. You have a small dick

One of the most common signs that you may be a cuckold is that you have a small dick.

Now, there are plenty of cuckolds that have normal sized or even VERY large dicks.

However, they are typically the minority in my experience.

In general, many cuckolds do have a small dick…or even a micro penis!

That’s actually one of the reasons why cuckolding is so appealing for both partners in this scenario.

For the wife, she can’t get off sexually to her husband’s small dick. She would much rather enjoy a BBC or someone with a decent sized cock.

The husband knows he can’t satisfy her directly and actually enjoys watching another man get her off.

His pleasure comes from her pleasure.

So check between your legs.

If you have a below average or a very small dick, there’s a good chance that you may be a cuckold in waiting!

Or maybe your wife is already thinking about cuckolding you already. If that’s so, I would definitely check out this blog post!

P.S. the average dick size in the U.S. is around 6 inches. So if you’re below that you’re small!

2. “I’m too tired, honey”

Another tell tale sign that your wife wants to cuckold you is when there is a big decline in your sex life.

When you were first together you probably had sex a lot right? Probably multiple times a week or even multiple times a day!

Well, when she wants to cuckold you, she may lose interest in sex together.

Maybe its because the sex has gotten stale or maybe your dick no longer pleases her.

Or maybe she never got off on your small dick in the first place!

It is more common with couples who have been together for a long time (i.e. multiple decades).

When you want to have sex she always uses the “I’m too tired” excuse.

And if you do have sex, the process is often rushed. She just wants to get it over as fast as possible.

Or maybe she has to finish herself off with a sex toy instead of using your cock (or even your mouth/fingers).

Another thing you’ll notice is she won’t do certain sexual things for you anymore. For example, she won’t give you a blowjob or try anal.

In reality, you’re just not the person she wants to do those things with/for.

But that’s okay.

Once she finds the right bull, she’ll be back to having fun in the bedroom!

3. You are naturally submissive

One of the very common traits of a cuckold is that you are naturally submissive to women.

Now before I go further, I know that not all cuckolds are naturally submissive. In fact, many cuckolds are actually “alpha” in their normal vanilla lives.

They are CEOs, athletes, and high achievers in vanilla live.

But, one common trait among many cuckolds is they are naturally submissive to women.

And this typically reflects the type of women you date/marry.

You typically gravitate towards women who are very independent and strong.

They like to take charge and get hands on in everything. And this also reflects how they run your relationship.

You have to run things by them. You have to ask to spend money. And you need their approval for a bunch of things.

Not only that, but you feel a need to do whatever your wife/girlfriend says. You would do anything to please her.

If you are already in a female led relationship (FLR), that is a good jumping off point to explore cuckolding with your partner.

Even if you’re not, and you are just submissive to women, then you may find yourself becoming a cuckold in the near future!

4. You love when they flirt with her

They say the biggest compliment you can get is if another man hits on your wife (or girlfriend), right?

I would say that’s true. As a man, it’s nice to know that other men find your wife attractive as well.

If you find a lot of men hitting on your wife…and you actually enjoy seeing them do it, then you might be a cuckold.

There’s just something highly erotic about another man hitting on your wife.

At first, it’s your ego when you see your wife is a highly desirable woman.

But when you see her flirting back things become a little different…

You feel a mix of emotions – starting with jealously, but eventually it turns to arousal especially when she starts flirting back in a physical way – such as touching them.

And you may start to notice it more (especially after you read this blog post)!

Maybe she flirts with your friends more. Maybe she flirts with her gym trainer or the Starbucks barista.

It doesn’t matter with who – flirting is sexy

And if you like it when she flirts with other guys, it is a BIG sign that you may be a cuckold!

5. You love to watch other people have sex

One thing that cuckolds like to do is watch their wives have sex.

It’s such a rush watching another man handle your wife…to see their hands all over her.

And best of all: to see another man’s cock in your wife!

So if you are into voyeurism, you may be a prime suspect for being a future cuckold.

Now, that’s not to say that all men into voyeurism are cuckolds, but it’s still a good indicator.

There are a lot of different ways to watch your wife have sex.

Some cuckolds love to be under the bed while their wives have sex – not being able to see the action directly.

While, some like to “watch from the closet” – it is a big fantasy of them to “catch their wife cheating on them”.

So if you are into voyeurism and love watching other people have sex, your wife may be able to turn you into a cuckold!

6. You always need permission

As I mentioned before, if you are naturally submissive towards women, you may be a cuckold.

This usually manifests in needing her permission for everything.

When you find yourself already needing to seek permission (or approval) from your wife for things, you may be a good candidate for a cuckold.

What does this mean?

Well, if you have to ask her to spend money is a really good indicator. And I’m not talking about big purchases like a car or anything like that.

I’m talking about regular things.

In fact, I have often said that women should control a man emotionally, financially, and physically!

If you need to ask her permission to hang out with your friends over the weekend, then she’s already got you in her grasp (in a good way).

Basically, if you need to ask her for permission/approval for a lot of things, then you may already be a cuckold!

A cuckold relationship is a type of female led relationship where the woman is in charge.

So if she’s already in charge of your relationship, it may only be a matter of time until she turns you into a cuckold!

7. Getting said no to turns you on

When you are in a marriage you’ll often hear “no” a lot.

No to sex (and often lots of denial)!

No to going to Vegas with your buddies.

When you are a cuckold for your wife, you will hear no more often – probably in the bedroom!

And no will often turn you on.

Did you want to have a little quickie before work? If she said no and it turned you on, then you might be a cuckold.

Do you want to get a blowjob from your wife/girlfriend, but she said she’s “too tired”? – Then you might be a cuckold!

Cuckolds get told no a lot (especially when it comes to sex).

So if you find yourself getting turned on by the word no, then you are trending in the right direction.

8. You are locked in chastity or dream about it

Do you dream about being locked in chastity by your wife/girlfriend?

Or maybe you are already locked in chastity for her.

Either way, many cucks are locked in chastity – as it’s a very good way to control them.

I have often said that chastity is the gateway to cuckolding.

This is because your dick will no longer deliver pleasure to your wife (if it ever did haha).

Instead, your wife will gain pleasure from denying you and controlling your dick while she seeks out other men.

In addition, men that are locked in chastity tend to be more submissive in general and that a common trait with cuckolds as well.

And once your wife has you in chastity you obviously won’t be able to fuck her anymore.

Once that happens, she’ll likely seek bigger dick men to satisfy her in that department!

9. Your wife cheated on you

While I don’t condone cheating at all in a cuckold marriage, this is one way how some couples get started in a cuckold relationship.

However you need to keep this in mind: cuckolding is about power exchange and trust and exploring new fetishes/kinks.

It is NOT about cheating or seeing someone behind your partner’s back.

That said, if your wife cheated on you and you liked it, it may be a sign that you are a cuckold.

When some men experience this for the first time, they may be angry, but then when they start to think about it, they start getting turned on and like it.

It’s a weird feeling to describe, but the thought of their wife with another man is a really big turn on!

I’ve talked to many men who got turned onto cuckolding this way.

Maybe they caught their wife with their friend or boss or neighbor…

And they were angry at first…but the more and more they thought about it, they loved it.

It’s an inexplicable drug called cuckolding 🙂

10. You crave humiliation

Another sign that you maybe a cuckold is if you LOVE humiliation.

One part of cuckolding that many men love is the humiliation aspect of it.

Cuckolds love the humiliation that comes with their wife sleeping with someone else. It’s just a rush…a high that you can’t get anywhere else.

So if you love humiliation, you may eventually love cuckolding as well.

And humiliation can come in a number of ways.

For example, it could be your wife/girlfriend making fun of your small penis.

Or it could be your wife telling people about how she has you locked in chastity!

Or it could even be public humiliation!

One thing that is common is that many cucks love and crave humiliation.

So if that sounds like you…you may be a cuck!

Signs You May Be A Cuckold – Final Thoughts

As you can see, there many be a lot of indicators and signs that you may be a cuckold.

Hopefully this list gives you a good idea of what to look for so you can decide which path you want to go.

Readers, do you think I missed anything at all? Did you find this helpful at all?

Let me know in the comments!