Does Chastity Lead To Cuckolding?

Does chastity lead to cuckolding?

I get this question in my inbox several times a week so I figured I would write a blog post about this!

The answer to this question can be a little tricky.

So I wanted to tackle the question by first answering why chastity CAN lead to cuckolding in your marriage.

But the short answer is, not necessarily. Cuckolding isn’t something that is “forced” upon one partner despite what your fantasies might be.

It is an incredibly big change in your marriage that should be discussed and planned with your partner.

As a result, chastity doesn’t necessarily lead to cuckolding in that regard.

But at the same time, many couples in the cuckolding lifestyle DO practice chastity.

And that is for reasons I’ll discuss below…

Being submissive

Chastity almost always leads the man to being more submissive. In fact, it is one of the big benefits of chastity!

If you are “alpha” in your daily vanilla life, you’ll soon find out just how submissive you can be when your wife has you under her lock and key!

And if you are already naturally submissive, you’ll see how much farther you can fall on the submissive side!

As I have written about before, being submissive is one of the qualities of a cuck.

Sure, it’s not the main quality and it’s not the only quality of a cuckold.

But most cuckold husbands or boyfriends are submissive – some are very naturally submissive.

When you are in chastity, you are more likely to do the bidding of your wife.

After all, she controls the key to your cock and balls!

You’ll find that because you can’t stroke and you can’t fuck, your pleasure derives from her pleasure.

It’s very hard to describe until you actually feel it yourself.

But you want her to be happy and you want her to feel pleasure. Your pleasure comes from eating her out now.

Eventually this may even turn to cuckolding as you want her to experience pleasure from another man’s cock.

The feeling from cuckolding is very similar to what I just described. You get pleasure from watching her get pleasure from another man.

It’s simply just the progression of the submissiveness of being locked in chastity.

Your cock can no longer satisfy her

One reason why chastity leads to cuckolding is because when your dick is locked up, you can no longer satisfy her with it.

Sure, even though your tongue can provide some comfort for her, your cock is still locked in the cage.

Yes, you can even use a strapon, but it’s not the same.

Sometimes, you may even have a small dick – and that’s pretty self explanatory haha.

Even if you have a normal sized or even a larger dick, you still can’t please her when you are locked up.

As a result, after long periods of lockup, it is only natural that your wife starts looking around or you both decide for someone to take her.

For some couples, this may take several years as introducing another man into your relationship can be a big trust jump.

For other couples, it may only take a few months.

So if this is something you want to happen on your end, you need to be patient.

Anyways, a part of the appeal of cuckolding is the humiliation aspect of it.

And small penis humiliation really plays into that. After all, if you can’t satisfy your wife, you should have another man get a crack at it, right? 🙂

P.S. if you’re ready to make the jump, be sure to read this blog post on what to do to get your wife to start cuckolding you.

Fetish exploration

Another reason why couples that practice chastity often end up gravitating towards cuckolding is because they experiment around with different fetishes.

Couples that are engaged in chastity are often very kinky (obviously) and are not satisfied with a normal vanilla marriage.

Kink is kind of like a drug.

Once you try it, you become addicted and need it! Boring vanilla sex won’t cut it anymore.

You want to experiment around.

You WANT to try new things.

And I think that’s great!

Once you try chastity you may want to experiment around with other fetishes like bondage, voyeurism, ballbusting and CBT, pegging and anal play, and much more!

Eventually the couple will probably read up on cuckolding (like from my blog!) and a lightbulb will go off in their head about how fun it can be.

It’s only the natural progression, right?

Now, things may start small…

For example, the couple may just watch cuckold porn or first or maybe go to a local fetish club to see what the fuss is about.

But eventually, as they experiment around, they’ll be drawn closer and closer to the cuckold lifestyle!

You crave humiliation & power control

One reason couples get into chastity is for the humiliation and power exchange.

There’s nothing quite like handing over control of your cock and balls to another person.

They control you now. They decide when you cum. And they decide when you get unlocked…if at all!

That humiliation and power control is very addicting. And like a drug, once you experience it, you only want more!

Cuckolding takes that humiliation and power play to a whole different level.

Cuckolding really stimulates the humiliation that a lot of cuckolds want to feel.

They are locked in chastity and unable to stroke and unable to please their wife with their dicks anymore.

On top of that, it is part of the humiliation of being locked up while another man takes their wife.

Being unable to even stroke while your wife can sleep with as many guys as she wants is a real trip!

Chastity and cuckolding go together like peanut butter and jelly (or whatever food combination you want to use).

Does it always lead to cuckolding?

While playing with chastity often does lead to cuckolding down the line, it’s not a requirement.

Many couples that dabble with the cuckold lifestyle don’t play with chastity at all.

Similarly, there are also many couples who don’t want anything to do with cuckolding at all, but are really into chastity.

Again, it’s not something that has to happen for cuckolding to occur.

This is because cuckolding is not some “random” thing that happens – despite what some men fantasize about.

Cuckolding has a BIG impact on your marriage and is something that should be discussed and planned.

As a result, chastity doesn’t directly lead to cuckolding in my opinion.

Instead, I would say chastity is a “gateway drug” to cuckolding.

Chastity allows the woman in the relationship to feel full power and control her husband.

And that is really powerful and addicting and amazing.

As a result, this usually leads the couple to practice other fetishes common to female led relationship – including cuckolding.

Does chastity lead to cuckolding? – Final Thoughts!

Readers, what do you think? Does chastity lead to cuckolding?

Or is it simply something couples explore along the way?

Let me know what you think in the comments below!

P.S. if you want to share your cuckold experiences, be sure to check out this blog post and fill out the form at the top of the page!