Is permanent chastity a thing?
Is permanent chastity possible?
For obvious reasons, the idea of permanent chastity is a BIG fantasy for a lot of submissive men.
After all, who wouldn’t get hard at the thought of being locked up by your wife/girlfriend and never feel pussy again in your life?
Instant hardness just thinking about that!
However, in reality, permanent chastity – as in being locked in chastity 24/7/365 is not really practical for a variety of reasons.
But that doesn’t mean long-term chastity isn’t a viable option. In fact, long-term chastity has a lot of great benefits for your female led relationship!
So in this blog post, I wanted to talk about the feasibility of permanent chastity and what other alternatives are available for you to pursue.
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Is permanent chastity really possible?
Like I mentioned at the beginning of the post, permanent chastity is a big fantasy for many people.
However, in reality, permanent chastity may not be the right choice for everyone.
In addition, there are a lot of big roadblocks when it comes to real permanent chastity, namely:
- Personal hygiene can be at risk for long-term lockups
- Chastity may hinder active lifestyles
- Work or travel may interfere
- You may notice a decline in sexual drive
So let’s talk about each of these points in more detail…
Chastity may cause hygiene issues
One reason why permanent chastity isn’t very realistic is because there are some hygiene concerns of very long-term wear.
Namely, a lot of sweat, piss, and dirt will build up in your cage. This occurs naturally even if you shower or bathe every single day.
As a result, your crotch can develop a very bad smell and obviously that’s not healthy at all.
In fact, it IS healthy to take the cage of every few weeks for a thorough cleaning.
Take apart the rings and the lock and the cock cage. Then run them through water and soap like you are washing the dishes.
Then, let them dry up before putting everything back on together.
Another concern with long-term wear is public hair. Obviously it is much harder to maintain a clean manhood with long pubic hair.
But beyond that, long hairs can get caught everywhere in your chastity cage. This can cause a lot of irritation and pain and sometimes ingrown hairs!
As a result, I would highly recommend shaving frequently to get rid of that problem.
Active lifestyles may impact wear
Another reason why permanent chastity may not be a good idea is if you have an active lifestyle.
If you play a lot of sports, do a lot of running, hiking, contact sports (like ju-jitsu, karate, etc.), a chastity cage can get in the way.
Sure, lots of chastity cages are built for comfort and long-term wear, but they weren’t built for sports – they were built to be a sex toy!
If you have a very active lifestyle, you should take off your chastity cage before engaging in those activities.
Further, in some sports you should (and have) to wear a cup. As a result, you should take the chastity cage off for that otherwise it may be unsafe!
Your job & travel may get in the way
Another problem with permanent chastity is sometimes your job won’t allow you to keep the chastity cage on at all times.
For example, if you need to go through airport security frequently, that may be an issue.
Or maybe you are a lawyer and need to go to court a lot (and need to pass through the metal detector) – obviously a cage can be a very big problem!
And if your job is very physically demanding – maybe you play sports a lot or compete in body building competitions, etc. – wearing a cage at all times is not a very practical thing.
Permanent chastity may result in decreased libido
Another reason why permanent chastity is may not be a super great idea is that VERY long periods of time in chastity (for months) may actually decrease male libido.
Some guys who have been locked in chastity for a long period of time actually experience a DECLINE in sex drive.
This is because they are denied over and over again and their subconscious mind just gets used to it.
After all, if you are denied over and over again, you just kind of “give up.”
Obviously, a decline in sexual drive isn’t a good thing for your relationship!
So take things nice and slow and take breaks often.
What’s the next best thing?
In my opinion, true permanent chastity isn’t always practical – even if you just take the cage off only for cleaning and to shave.
Sure, it’s a great fantasy to play around with your partner, but there are a lot of things that can get in the way of this.
So, what’s the next best thing?
Well, I would say long-term chastity!
Long-term chastity is different than permanent chastity.
Long-term chastity just implies you will be locked in chastity for the long-term. However, it doesn’t mean that the cage is on 100% of the time.
Sure, maybe it’s on 80% or 90% of the time, because it is important to take breaks from kink too.
After all, doing too much of a good thing is a bad thing. And doing something over and over and over again can kind of get boring (even when it comes to kink).
Further, little breaks are necessary for your mental health as well. There are few people who can be submissive 100% of the time.
Similarly, there are few people who can be dominant 100% of the time. It just gets tiring and exhausting. So giving your keyholder a break is also important!
Another alternative is also to go pussy free. While being “pussy free” and being in permanent chastity 100% of the time aren’t the same thing, they are similar.
And I would say, going pussy free is a bit easier to achieve in terms of ability (again for the reasons I mentioned earlier such as hygiene, airports, etc.)
Make sure your cage fits!
No matter if you are attempting long-term chastity or permanent chastity or something in between, the fit of your chastity cage is VERY important.
After all, an improperly sized chastity cage can cause A LOT of health problems!
For example, overly tight rings can cause chaffing to your skin. This may cause rashes, imprints, and other health conditions.
Tight rings can also restrict blood flow to the penis. So obviously getting a good sizing is important.
Further, an improperly sized cock cage can also make going to the bathroom very difficult!
For example, if the cage is too large, you may find it very difficult to line your penis against the pee-hole and may end up peeing all over yourself in the cage. And trust me, that’s not a fun experience!
For a detailed guide on how to measure yourself and pick a properly fitting chastity cage set, check out this blog post.
Also, another thing you want to avoid when it comes to long-term chastity wear is spiked cages.
Some chastity cages come with spikes to cause your penis discomfort when you get hard. Others come with spikes on the ring which serve as an “anti-pullout” feature.
Spiked chastity cages are great for SHORT term wear – ideally for tease and denial sessions.
But spiked cages are not good for long-term wear and may cause damage to your manhood.
The effects of long-term chastity
Before you attempt permanent or long-term chastity it is important to understand how it can impact your body (both physically and mentally).
Some of the effects of long-term chastity include:
- Blue balls (some days worse than others!)
- A decline in personal hygiene
- Changes to your mental health
- Penis shrinkage (potentially)
- Higher risk of prostate illnesses
Check out this blog post for more information about the long-term impacts of chastity!
Final Thoughts
Overall, while permanent chastity sounds like an amazing fantasy, reality can be a little different for the reasons I previously mentioned.
Sometimes you need to take off the cage – especially to maintain basic personal hygiene.
As a result, permanent chastity is often best left as a fantasy (a good one at that).
And while a lot of men fantasize about being locked up 24/7 with no way out, not many are really able to handle that.
I personally think a better solution is to focus on having fun. It doesn’t matter if you are locked up for 2 hours or 2 years as long as you are having fun!
That’s the most important thing when it comes to chastity and your sex life.
So, what are YOUR thoughts on this? Do you think total and true permanent chastity is really possible?
Let me know in the comments!
Joe Sommer says
You have it right. Permanent chastity is a fantasy at best. I’m a sub male and serve a Mistress. I’m also married. My wife doesn’t know about my serving a Mistress. I’m an older sub male and serving a Mistress was on my bucket list. My wife and I don’t have sex anymore and sleep in different bedrooms. The longest I’ve had a chastity cage on was 3 days. I took it off to do my pubic shaving. Very important to keep that area shaved. I only wear my cock cage when I serve my Mistress. Why do I have a key? My Mistress and I live over 50 miles apart and I only serve her twice a month. And covid-19 has made it more difficult. Permanent chastity is a fantasy at best. I agree with a lot of what you said. At 70 years old, I know my time as a sub male are numbered. I’m lucky that my Mistress will see me at my age, but I’m having the time of my life serving her.