13 Femdom Chastity Ideas: Tease & Punishment For Your Chastity Slave

Looking for some great femdom chastity ideas as punishment for your slave husband/boyfriend?

Well, you’ve come to the right place! Now, even though chastity itself can be a punishment for your slave, sometimes you need something else to punish him with.

After all, if you just keep locking him in chastity for longer and longer, it kind of loses its creativity.

As a keyholder, you should have a fun list of punishments to dole out at your slave at a moment’s notice.

After you read this blog post, you should have a whole bag of tricks to try on him. Sorry fellas, but you’re going to have even bigger blue balls if your significant other reads this 🙂

This blog post will cover:

• Various types of chastity punishment ideas for your slave
• Femdom chastity ideas and scenarios to tease & deny him
• How to combine chastity punishment and “torture”

So here are 13 cruel chastity punishment ideas to try in your FLR!

1. Wear spiked chastity cage

One of the easiest ways to punish your slave is to put him into a spiked chastity cage!

Now, before I go on, keep in mind that spiked chastity cages should only be worn for a short period of time (i.e. a few hours).

Given they have spikes and screws that can dig into your manhood, they should not be worn long-term.

Anyways, have your slave put on a spiked chastity belt for a few hours. Take this time to really tease him so the spikes really dig into his cock and balls!

Stroke his cocks and balls softly before giving him a chastity blowjob. Let you spit drip all around his cock. Tease him by asking him how it feels.

When he has dripped enough pre-cum from the cage, let him out and clean it all up. After all, his throat will probably be sore from begging and begging to be released!

After this experience, he definitely will be obeying any order you have in the future!

2. Reverse psychology

So, one of the most common chastity punishments is to just add extra days to his chastity sentence.

If he looks at you the wrong way or even talks back in the slightest way, add an extra day to chastity.

If he leaves the toilet seat up, add an extra week to chastity.

And if he forgot the garbage, add some more days on top of that!

Now, that’s fine for small infractions.

But let’s say he does something to REALLY piss you off.

In that case, you should try reverse psychology on him. Tell him you’re going to unlock him and return his key.

This works if your partner is SUPER submissive and loves being in chastity.

If he’s been locked in chastity for so long, the idea of being free again (both literally and figuratively) is such a weird sensation. In fact, he’ll hate it.

Make him BEG you to be locked up again. And I’m talking about begging pathetically like a dog!

3. Sniff your panties

Another way to really tease and torment and punish your chastity slave is to make him sniff your panties.

In fact, you can have him wear your dirty panties as a face mask. Make sure your panties are wet with your juices or full of your bull’s cum!

Let him know what he’s really missing out on when he’s locked in the cage.

Say things like:

• “Don’t you just love smelling his cum on my panties?”
• “Can you smell how wet I am? Wouldn’t you love to feel my pussy right now?”
• “Locking you up makes me so wet.”

Get him nice and hard and leaking in there as you take off your warm, wet panties and slide them onto his face. Make sure his nose is right in there on your crotch.

To make things even worse, you can also have him kneel over rice as he’s smelling your dirty panties. In fact, he’ll be in both pain and pleasure at the same time.

Talk about sensory overload, right? haha

To really mind fuck him even more, order him to open your mouth as you stuff your dirty panties in there.

4. Turn him into your errand boy

Another way to really punish your chastity slave and torment him at the same time is to make him wear a butt plug while running errands or doing chores for you.

For example, stick a big black butt plug into him and send him off to pick stuff up at the grocery store.

Another thing you can do is make him drive 2 – 3 hours – say to the next town to pick up something from your favorite bakery.

Sitting on a plug like that for a few hours will definitely frustrate him while he’s locked up!

Or if you want to do something a little closer to him, give him a list of household chores to do such as mopping the floors, cleaning the bathroom, etc.

In this circumstance, I find that it’s really fun using a remote controlled butt plug on him.

This way you can really tease/torment him while he’s slaving around the house for you.

Or you can use it while out in public. Now, that’s chastity humiliation to another level!

5. Play spin the wheel

Here’s another fun chastity game to punish your slave husband.

This one is a really fun idea because it really leaves his punishment up to chance!

That’s right, you’re going to play spin the wheel! Basically, you will have a list of punishments that you will dole out to him depending on where the wheel lands!

Now, if you don’t have a wheel, you can use random number generator and have each number (i.e. between 1 and 10) correspond to a different punishment.

Or you can use one of the free “spin the wheel generators” online.

The fun thing about this punishment is that it is totally random. It brings a nice element of surprise to his punishment!

6. Cold shower

Remember when the ice bucket challenge was a big thing?

Well, you’re going to bring it back…kind of.

Order your slave to lie down on the bed. You’re going to give him a really naughty chastity tease!

Rub his balls and stroke his cage softly until he starts to strain against it. His skin should try to ooze out from the cage.

Make things even worse by sitting on his face and not allowing him to tease your pussy (only smelling).

When you see him leaking, stop everything at once. Order him to lick up any pre-cum like a good little slut.

Then, put a lease on his cage and lead him into the bathroom on his hands and knees like a dog.

Order him to stand in the shower and turn the water to the coldest setting. After that, turn on the water and spray his blue balls with the ice cold water!

That’ll cool him down, right? hahahaha!

If that’s not enough, fill up a large bowl with some ice and water and have him stick his balls in there for 20 seconds!

Gotta cool off those blue balls, right? 🙂

7. The short release

The ‘short release’ is is truly the most tormenting femdom chastity ideas on this list…

Why? Because you give him a little taste of freedom!

After all, when you have been jailed so long and locked in chastity for so long, even the littlest bit of freedom is such a mind fuck!

This is a great way to really mind fuck him because you are giving him just a little taste of what he is missing and then totally denying him.

It’s really fun watching the hope evaporate from his eyes!

Now, there are a few ways to go about this.

One way is to remove his cage and get him nice and hard by stroking him softly with your fingers.

Immediately after he is fully erect, inform him that it’s time to go back in the cage.

Take some ice cubs and use them to make him go soft and stuff him back in!

Another way to REALLY tease him is to take him out of the cage, get him nice and hard, and just insert the tip of his cock into your pussy.

Just put him inside so he barely gets enough sensation to feel how warm and wet you are.

After that brief little bit of freedom, he’s going back in the cage!

And if he protests, add extra days to his chastity lockup!

After all, a tease is the best kind of punishment!

8. Jerk him in the cage

One thing you can really do to punish your slave is have him jerk off in the cage.

That’s right, give him a certain time limit – say 60 seconds to try and cum in the cage.

Cumming in chastity is possible, but it is very hard to get the stimulation necessary to cum even if you have been locked for an extended period of time.

More often than not, he’s just going to REALLY frustrate himself in the cage and have even worse blue balls…which is exactly what you want!

Once the timer is finished, it’s over. If he doesn’t cum that’s too bad!

And even if he does, it won’t be a pleasurable orgasm by any stretch of the imagination.

9. Tease him in the cage

Another fun way to punish your slave is to simply tease him in the chastity cage.

Set aside 20 – 30 minutes before bed to tease and torment your slave in the cage.

Have him lie down while you sit on his face and tease his cock/balls with a vibrator.

Rub it all around and have him lick you while he moans. It’s like pure torture getting hard in the cage and unable to burst out!

Then, dangle the key in his face while you play around with his balls.

Put the key into the lock and turn it ever so slightly, but not enough to fully unlock him.

When he has pre-cum dripping out of his cage, scoop it up and make him clean it all up!

After all, it’s called recycling!

When you feel like he has suffered enough for the night, stop and send him off to bed…that is IF he can sleep after all that action!

10. The screensaver punishment

This is one of my favorite chastity punishments because of the humiliation aspect of it.

One way to punish your slave is to make him put a picture of his chastity cage as the screensaver for his phone!

Don’t allow him to take it off for one whole week.

Now, whenever he is in public he’ll have to carefully check his phone whenever he is around family, friends, and co-workers!

Talk about a humiliating experience, right?

He’ll have to be quick and open the phone and make sure no one is looking over his shoulder.

Oh well, I guess next time he’ll think twice about disobeying you and pissing you off!

11. Take a Viagra

Another devious way to punish your slave is to make him take a Viagra pill before something important.

Viagra is such a fun way to fuck with him and make sure he stays nice and hard in the cage!

For example, you can give him a pill before he has dinner with his parents.

Order him to take it and give him a little tease before going to dinner. And while at the table, torture him a bit by playing footsie under the table and playing with his cock with your feet

Or another thing you can do is give him the pill before work when you know he has an important meeting with his boss!

There are a lot of things you can do once you slip him the pill, so Viagra is a very useful drug to fuck with your chastity slave!

P.S. for more Viagra chastity ideas, check out this blog post!

12. Peg him in the cage

One way to really “punish” your chastity slave is to peg him in the cage.

That’s right! Lube up your strapon, bend your slave over the bed, and then take his ass as your own!

Start pumping that big cock into his sissyhole!

If you really want to humiliate him a little, order him to stroke his dick while you fuck him.

Or you can reach around and grab his balls as you thrust deeper and deeper into his ass.

But be careful! If you use this punishment too much, he might actually enjoy it!

One thing that I’ve noticed over time is that lots of chastity slaves get into anal play because it’s a great way to stimulate their prostate when they can’t stroke!

If that’s the case, graduate to larger and larger cocks so you can still continue to stretch out his sissyhole!

13. Workout punishment

I think this is one of my more ingenious ideas so I saved it for last.

Basically, you are going to give your slave a “workout punishment.”

He must accomplish the each of the following:

• Perform x amount of pushups without resting
• Run a mile in x minutes
• Do x pullups at once without resting

For example, if he fails to run a mile in 10 minutes, punish him by keeping him in chastity for another week.

If he can’t do 10 pullups without resting, peg him with your strapon.

And if he can’t do 20 pushups in one go, make him deep throat your strapon!

The idea is fun because it combines fitness with a little competitive element.

Chastity Humiliation Ideas – Final Thoughts

Overall, there are a lot of femdom chastity ideas out there. In fact, you are pretty much just limited by your own creativity!

Hopefully this list jump started your brain and gave you some good ideas to punish your slave if/when he misbehaves.

So, what was your favorite from this list? And which one do you want to try the most?

Let me know in the comments!