9 Sexy Bondage Ideas For Your FLR: BDSM For Beginners

Looking for some sexy bondage ideas to spice things up in your female led relationship? Well, you have come to the right place!

This has been a long requested blog post by many of you, so I wanted to share some beginner BDSM ideas focusing on “predicament bondage.”

Now, some of these ideas involve other fetishes and kinks like teasing/denial, cuckolding, and chastity – but I think it adds to the fun 🙂

Without rambling on too long, here are 9 bondage ideas you should try with your partner!

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1. Hog tie him

One really fun way to put your partner in bondage is to hog tie him!

How do you hog tie someone? Well, I’d recommend this guide.

So, what do you do once you have your partner all tied up?

Well, I find that it’s really fun (and funny) to tease him, when he can’t move! For example, edge him a few times in the cage to really tease him.

Or you can have him worship your smelly gym socks or sneakers or barefeet.

After that, you can try something like stuffing your dirty socks or panties into his mouth!

Or better yet, put your creampie panties into his mouth and have him watch you suck off another man while he can’t move at all!

The hogtie is a classic bondage position for a reason! There’s nothing like the satisfaction you get when you tie your partner in a hog tie!

2. Tie him to a chair – cuckold edition

This is one of my favorite ideas because it’s so simple, naughty, and downright erotic!

This idea is a great one for all the cuckold couples out there.

Bring in a sturdy chair into the bedroom to tie your husband to. I’d recommend a wooden chair because I feel like they are way more “stable.”

Anyways, tie him to the chair so he can’t move his arms and legs or even stand up.

Then, you will invite your bull over to fuck you while your husband watches literally unable to do anything!

And one thing you can do is bend over onto the chair with your hands over your cuck’s knees. Then, your bull will fuck you from behind so your cuck can stare into your eyes while it is all happening.

Trust me, that’s some erotic stuff right there!

Oh and you can also stuff your panties into his mouth and duct tape it shut so he has to taste your juices while you’re being fucked by another man!

3. Ballbusting bondage

If you are into pain and ballbusting, one fun thing you can do is tie down your partner to the chair or a pole in the house so he can’t move away from your kicks!

Now, he will be very vulnerable for you!

You can begin punching him or squeezing his balls or even slapping his cock!

If he’s making too much noise, stuff your panties into his mouth to quiet that!

And if you are feeling a little more cruel, begin kicking him lightly. See how much pain he can take before he begs for mercy!

Just be sure to have a safe word to take things down a notch when they get too intense.

4. Bondage tease and denial

Another fun thing to really tease your partner while he is tied up is to tease him!

After all, when he is tied up, he won’t be able to resist at all!

For this next idea, you can either use rope or tape (but using tape can get a little messy and obviously it isn’t reusable).

But what you basically want to do is tie his hands onto his sides so he can’t move around – basically like a helpless mummy!

Then his cock will be yours to tease and torment as you wish! Edge him over and over again while denying him. Make sure he starts begging for mercy before you dump cold water (or even ice!) on his cock/balls!

Bondage and teasing go together like peanut butter and jelly!

P.S. if he accidentally cums during the tease and denial session, you can engage in some post orgasm torture.

This is perfect because he is tied down and cannot move. His cock will be beyond sensitive and when you over-stimulate his cock after an orgasm, it’ll be the worst tickling sensation he’ll ever experience 🙂

And the best part is he is tied down so he won’t be able to escape the “torture”!

5. Peg his ass!

Another fun thing to do with bondage is to combine it with pegging!

Now, the best way to do this is to tie his hands behind his back (like you are arresting him).

But if you have handcuffs that would work too! In fact, I find that handcuffs bring a certain “primal” element to the scene!

After you have his hands tied up, bend over your partner (i.e. over the bed or a desk) and begin pegging him!

Lube up that strapon and insert it in slowly. Grab him by the hips and thrust your cock into him as he moans with pain and pleasure!

Keep going until he’s had enough. Also, if you want to be even more cruel, stuff your dirty panties or socks into his mouth to muffle the screams!

Perhaps you’ll keep going until he cums from you pounding his little ass!

Also, make sure he is locked in chastity so he strains against the cage while you pound him!

6. Watch porn together

Another fun bondage idea is to tie your partner on the bed and then watch porn together!

So why tie him up in this circumstance?

Well, for a few reasons.

One is to make sure he can’t stroke and that only you can get him off. This is also great for long tease and denial sessions or if you want to give him a ruined orgasm!

The other reason is maybe you want to make him watch some bi or cuckold porn (basically – any type of porn he may not be interested in)!

Anyways, tie him down and watch it together.

Stroke him while you play with yourself. Talk dirty and let him know how you may want to act out that cuckold scene in the future!

7. Play with his senses

Another fun way to introduce bondage to the bedroom is to play with your partner’s senses.

For example, after you tie him down start teasing his cock and get him nice and hard.

After playing for a bit, put a blindfold on him so he can’t see.

Then, put earplugs in him so he can’t hear anything! Then, sit on his face and make him taste your wet pussy.

After that, duct tape his mouth so he can’t say anything or taste anything!

Slowly taking away his senses is highly erotic and a great way to spice things up in the bedroom!

Keep taking away his senses until all he has is touch. It’s a really fun way to mind fuck him!

8. Use him as your sex toy

A great idea you can try is to tie your partner to a chair so he can’t move around – just like how they tie people in movies with their arms behind the chair.

After you have him at your mercy and unable to do anything, ride your partner’s cock in cowgirl.

Use his cock as your toy in whatever way you want. After you have multiple orgasms, don’t let him cum at all.

A cruel tease and denial session like this will surely give him some intense blue balls!

After a session like this, you can spit on his face and leave him there for 20 – 30 minutes until his cock calms down and you can put him back in chastity!

Or if you don’t want to wait that long, you can even bring out some ice or cold water and use them on his cock/balls!

Talk about fun, right? 🙂

9. Test his escape skills

One fun game to try is to tie your partner up on the floor and give him a certain amount of time to untie himself.

For example, you can leave the rope tie on his arm a little loose so he can wiggle his way out.

If he doesn’t make it out of the ropes in a certain amount of time, you will punish him!

If he manages to escape in time, allow him a reward – maybe an orgasm or allow him the honor of eating you out.

This game is great for bondage enthusiasts who want to turn it into a little “competition”

You can also blindfold your partner too in order to make it more of a challenges!

Bondage Ideas For Your FLR – Final Thoughts

Overall, bondage is a great way to have fun and spice things up in your female led relationship.

There’s nothing like tying your partner down so he is completely helpless and at your mercy!

So, which bondage idea from this list did you like this most? And which ones have you already tried?

Let me know in the comments!