8 Hot Chastity Training Ideas For Your Wife Led Marriage

Using chastity to train your husband/boyfriend is a great idea.

When you lock your partner in a steel cage, he will instantly become more submissive. And once he is in the cage, he won’t be coming out until you decide so!

As a result, he will be much more likely to obey you (actually, he doesn’t have much of a choice)!

That’s why chastity is a useful tool to train your partner…

Train him for what? The Olympics?

Well, not necessarily. But that’s what this blog post is for – to give you some naughty and kinky ideas for training that little bitch of yours 🙂

So here are 8 super hot chastity training ideas for your female led relationship!

1. Chores around the house

One fun chastity training idea is to have your slave do chores around the house.

After all, why should you have to lift a finger doing this stuff when you have him at your beck and command!

Give him a list of chores to do – with a timer too.

For example, he must complete all of the chores within 2 or 3 hours.

And he must be locked in chastity while completing his tasks!

At the end of the time period, you will inspect his handiwork and give him a grade from 1 to 10, with 1 being bad and 10 being great.

If he fails to meet a certain threshold (i.e. a number grade), you will keep him locked up until next week when he does the same chores again!

If he does meet the threshold, you will allow him freedom from the cage.

That will surely motivate him to perform, right? 🙂

2. Longer lockups

Another integral part of chastity training is to increase the length of the lockup periods.

After all, chastity is a marathon, not a sprint!

Now, pushing your partner to lock it up longer in chastity requires a lot of training.

If you are totally new to chastity, you need to start with shorter lockups and work your way up from there.

My best advice is to find a cage that is comfortable and fits well – and that’s 70% of the battle.

Having your partner wear a chastity cage for long periods of time will make him way more submissive to you.

One way to really motivate you both to try longer and longer lockups is to keep a spreadsheet.

After all, what gets measured gets done!

Keeping a spreadsheet with the number of days locked up makes the chastity experience feel like a “game” where you want to beat the high score.

3. Oral servitude

One of the best ways to use chastity training for your partner is to make him serve you orally.

That’s right, once you have him locked in chastity, it will be very easy to turn him into a pro pussy licker!

This is because you control the keys to his freedom – to his cock and to his pleasure!

When you have him locked like that, your pleasure becomes his pleasure. And he will do anything to please you.

ANYTHING!

Use that…

Lock him in chastity and turn him into a good pussy licker for you.

Make sure he eats you out to several orgasms and then send him away with big blue balls!

You cum, he doesn’t. Simple as that!

4. Denial and blue balls

Another thing you want to incorporate in your partner’s chastity training is denial and blue balls!

After all, one of the really fun things about chastity is being able to deny your partner sexual release!

So here’s what I want you to do…

Tie your partner down on the bed and begin a long (at least 30 mins+) tease and denial session!

Begin to tease him…Stroke his balls, use a vibrator, etc.

Do anything you want to him. In fact, you can even have him eat out your pussy to REALLY tease him!

After you have teased him and he’s leaked enough pre-cum simply stop all stimulation.

At this point, you can just leave him there to “cool down” or you can do something a little more cruel like making him take a cold shower!

Either way, he should have some pretty painful blue balls by the end of the session!

Training your slave to enjoy blue balls and denial is important long-term.

5. Grade his performance

One part of chastity training I wished more couples did is a “report card” type system.

Think of it like you’re back in grade school.

At the end of every semester, the teacher (your keyholder in this case) grades your performance in class.

In this case, your keyholder will grade you on things like obedience, various skills (cooking, cleaning, etc.), and son on!

Not only is this a fun process but it also makes it kind of like a game as you can track your slave’s progress!

I find that doing this once a week or bi-weekly is a good interval. And you can keep track of everything in an excel spreadsheet!

At the end of every week is performance is satisfactory, your slave will get a reward. If not, he will be punished!

6. Remind him of what he’s missing

One fun thing to implement during your slave’s chastity training is ruined orgasms!

But wait…isn’t the idea of chastity to prevent him from cumming?

Well, it depends on what you want to achieve.

In my experience, a ruined orgasm can be an incredibly frustrating experience!

There’s not much pleasure associated with one. And often, you are even MORE horny and frustrated after the “orgasm”

The reason why you want to give him a ruined orgasm in chastity is to remind him of what he’s missing out on!

You have to give him a little taste. A little scrap of something he used to enjoy so much…

That little taste will keep him even more frustrated to the point of breaking down!

Now, that’s cruel, isn’t it? Well, I guess he’ll just have to endure it though haha 🙂

7. Serve your girlfriends

Another thing you can do to train your husband/boyfriend is to make him submissive to ALL women (if he’s not already).

How do you do this?

Well, one thing you can do is have him serve you and your girlfriends!

For example, you can have a spa day at home and have your partner wait on you hand and foot. He’ll serve drinks, order lunch, and basically do anything at your beck and call…all while he’s locked in chastity!

After all, chastity is the best way to make a man serve, right? 🙂

And while you are with your girlfriends, make sure he is very respectful and addresses you all properly – i.e. Mistress, Queen, Princess, etc.

Plus, sharing your slave with your girlfriends is a great way to have fun!

8. Turn him into a cuckold or sissy!

One way to use chastity to train your husband is to turn him into a cuckold or sissy…or both!

Both require quite a bit of work, so I would focus on one first before you try to tackle the other.

However, cuckold training is a lot of fun!

You can use chastity to really tease him about flirting and kissing and sleeping with other man.

Once he has been locked up for long enough, it’ll be such a torture to hear about other men fucking you! But he will be so into it because he wants to hard to please you.

Sissy training with chastity is also very fun because chastity allows you to “take away” his manhood.

After you have him locked him chastity, you can do other things to sissify/feminize him like putting him in panties and heels or painting his nails, introducing him to anal, etc.

Chastity Training Ideas – Final Thoughts

Overall, chastity is a great way to condition your partner and mold him into the perfect “slave/submissive.”

Plus, it is a great way to really crank up the kink in your relationship.

Hopefully you enjoyed these chastity training ideas!

Readers, which idea was your favorite? Let me know in the comments!