Should a cuckold be locked in chastity?
After all, it seems like the natural progression, right? If you already have cuckolded your husband/boyfriend/partner, then chastity doesn’t seem so far off.
Well, that’s going to be the topic of discussion today!
A while ago I wrote a blog post about whether or not chastity leads to cuckolding in your relationship.
This blog is going to focus on the reverse: whether or not you should lock your cuckold husband in chastity.
Overall, I think there are 4 main benefits to locking your cuck in chastity:
- It makes him easier to control
- It reinforces the humiliation aspect of cuckolding
- Your cuckold will want to please you more
- It elevates the thrill of power exchange
If you haven’t locked your cuckold in chastity, then this blog will go over the pros and cons of doing so.
Contents
- Why You Should Lock Your Cuckold In Chastity
- 1. It makes him easier to control
- 2. It reinforces the humiliation
- 3. Make him want to please you
- 4. Takes power control to another level
- The argument against locking your cuckold in chastity…
- 1. There is less physical intimacy
- 2. Chastity can create emotional distance
- 3. Chastity shrinkage
- Should A Cuckold Be Locked In Chastity – Final Thoughts
Why You Should Lock Your Cuckold In Chastity
1. It makes him easier to control
Without a doubt, the number one reason to lock your cuckold husband in chastity is to control him easier.
After all, there’s nothing like the power exchange that comes with chastity. When he’s locked in chastity for you, you can mold him into the perfect cuckold slave.
No more complaining when he has to wash your bull’s car while he is fucking you.
No more complaining when he has to drive you at 2 AM to your lover’s house for a quickie.
Chastity is truly a “miracle drug” when it comes to controlling your partner.
2. It reinforces the humiliation
Another reason why you want to lock your cucky in chastity is because it reinforces the humiliation of cuckolding.
As I have written about before, one reason why men love to become a cuckold is the humiliation aspect of it.
After all, what could be more humiliating than a man fucking your wife while you can do nothing but watch?
Well, chastity takes this to another extreme level.
Not only will know another man is fucking you…but he will also be locked in chastity so he can’t even stroke or cum without your permission!
Trust me, you’ll get so wet watching your husband squirm in his chastity cage while another man is pounding you in the bedroom.
Chastity REALLY enhances cuckolding to another level.
3. Make him want to please you
The other great thing about chastity is that it makes your cuckold want to please you more…in pretty much every imaginable way!
This includes eating your pussy pretty much every single day!
And I’m not kidding here! Putting your cuckold into chastity will turn him into a pussy eating machine for you.
And the power of chastity extends beyond the bedroom too.
He’ll want to do all of the chores for you: taking out the garbage, cleaning the floors, washing the dishes, etc!
It’s like having a live-in maid in the house haha
Trust me, this is a great thing!
4. Takes power control to another level
Another reason why you want to lock your cuckold in chastity is because it elevates the power exchange to another level.
If you just cuckold your husband that’s fine. But when you lock up his dick and not even allow him to cum, then, you totally control him!
Power exchange is truly a thrilling experience. When you do it for the first time, you will feel a rush of adrenaline in your body.
There’s nothing quite like it. It is truly the jolt your marriage needs from boring to vibrating sex life.
It really makes the cuckold sex you have 100x better. No doubt about it!
The argument against locking your cuckold in chastity…
So…what is the argument against locking your husband in chastity?
Well, there isn’t one. He’s just making an excuse!
Haha just kidding – (kind of).
When it comes to chastity there are a few downsides…
1. There is less physical intimacy
Chastity can create less physical intimacy in your marriage.
What do I mean by this?
Well for many cuckolds, part of the thrill of the whole fetish is being able to “reclaim” your wife (i.e. through sex) after she has been with someone else.
Obviously, that isn’t really possible if you lock your partner in chastity for long periods of time – especially if you’re considering permanent chastity.
2. Chastity can create emotional distance
One fear that some cuckolds have with the fetish is that their wives will fall for another man – that the whole cuckolding thing will go beyond sex.
Those fears may be enhanced when you lock your partner in chastity.
Cuckolding is one thing, but giving up sex?
While that may not be the case, it is something that you should seriously discuss with your partner to set expectations and make sure you are on the same page.
3. Chastity shrinkage
Finally, the downside of locking your partner in chastity is that it can lead to penis shrinkage. Note, this typically only happens with LONG-TERM chastity.
However, it should be something that should be mentioned!
For some couples, chastity penis shrinkage is exactly what they want. And for some, it’s not something that should be celebrated.
Should A Cuckold Be Locked In Chastity – Final Thoughts
So…should a cuckold be locked in chastity for his wife?
Well, it really depends!
Obviously it is YOUR cuckold relationship and it should ultimately depend on what you decide together with your partner.
I think that both ways are honestly fine.
Personally, I could go the chastity route because it’s just so much kinkier that way. But again it’s what YOU want in YOUR relationship.
So readers, what do you think?
Should a cuckold be locked in chastity?
Let me know in the comments and why…
Linda says
In our situation, Locked In Chastitiy is necessary and so required: First, our cuck just masturbates too much and needs to have his masturbation controlled. Both my Black Boyfriend and I have discussed this and agree on the necessity. Secondly, my Black Boyfriend and I believe that masturbation is a priviliege (not a right) for our cuck and can serve as a reward for good behavior. Thirdly, either my Black Boyfriend and I decide when, how and where cuck will be allowed to masturbate.. This is a win-win because when our cuck is allowed to masturbate, he enjoys the experience and my Black Boyfirnd and I enjoy being entertained. We both have the key; howeve,r my Black Boyfriend must give permission first, always.
Slavecc says
Linda I am in a femdom cuckold bbc only marriage and I am in enforced chastity , my Mistress / wife had started by first dominating me and well she is I guess a bit of a sadist so I am whipped punished on a regular basis, now my owner liked to go to a club in our area that well it was all black men and white woman it was like a place where they would hook up and my wife would go out on Friday and Saturday and she’d be with oh a lot of different black men you see my wife taught me the truth that black men are superior to white slave boys so she decided it was time she took control over my dicklet completely so there could be no chance I could touch myself and I was caged and like your lover my owners lover is a very handsome tall really black stud with a very big beautiful dark black cock that I was honored to suck a few times, now if my wife wants me to eat her pussy there is 2 rules the Master has to have just fucked my wife and he does not ever use a condom it’s always a clean up situation and the second rule is I have ask him permission and my wife and I always abide by his decisions , so my little dicklet is locked in well a New very small tight little cage that compresses the dicklet way down it’s my owner and her lovers hope to shrink it as small as possible and they jointly discuss when I get a release and it’s always a ruined orgasm and I have to lick up every drop of cum but that’s no problem I am use to licking masters cum off his cock but mostly out of my owners pussy I love my owner and my Master and he always cums first thank you slave cc
Martha says
Chastity for a cuckold adds to the humiliation of being a cuckold as much as cuckold ing adds to the humiliation of being in chastity. Many cuckoo’s get a sexual thrill from their partner having sex with another person. Chastity removes even that.
When Mistress Linda gets ready for a night out I am put in chastity. My vivid imagination of what mite be going on would of course lead to masterbation. Chastity prevents even that small pleasure.
Slave cc says
Chastity did improve my cuckold marriage , but really what got me to the point of being cuckolded was really being dominated , I have been been dominated by my wife / owner since day one of relationship and I mean a heavy dose of the riding crop a no mercy no safe word situation you see my owner must have a TPE and that’s is what our marriage is all about and it’s a complete total power exchange I have no rights at all none and In all honesty I am very happy being owned property I would never ever go against my owner I know this might sound strange but it is a kind of freedom for me in my mind ,she makes all decisions I have one goal one focus in life obey my owner what she says is law and although I get whipped on a regular basis I understand that it for my own good I really love her for doing it ownership is is responsibility that she really accepts with passion , now the cuckolding just came naturally to us and she takes full advantage of it which is her right as my owner, she has had long term lovers and they openly confess their love for each other to me in person , you see my owner bbc only she only has sex with black men and they never use condoms , we believe that sex is for white women and black men to enjoy but my owner loves me to perform clean up she always has an orgasm and I love it really something special for me to lick black man’s cum out of her pussy and she does touch me afterward she milks me but it’s always a ruined orgasm and then I must lick my own cum up she was thinking about having her lovers baby but she decided against the idea she didn’t want to be tied down , she is a career woman she holds her MBA and well at company functions and company parties she always goes with Master Micheal and they all know she’s married to me so it’s kind of a humiliation when she does bring me around but they all seem to accept our relationship but in closing I can say I’m very happy to be owned sub slave and my owner / wife is extremely happy sexually and other wise dominant and submissive cuckolding is a great thing , thank you slave c c
Martha says
Cuckolding and chastity seem to go together. There are many reasons men enjoy chastity. What men often fail to realize and accept is the lack of erections. Guys like their hard ons. Hard ons feel great being denied orgsam is acceptable if you have a hard on. But no hard on? Oh God you are worthless. No wonder your wife is looking outside the marriage for satisfaction.
MyFemdomRules says
Yeah, definitely agree here!