Tease and Denial Techniques: The Orgasm Denial Guide For Your FLR

Honing in on your tease and denial techniques is important for your female led relationship.

After all, chastity and male orgasm denial is an integral part of the power exchange dynamic.

The great thing about tease and denial is there are so many things to do to your chastity slave. Edging him and then denying him is so much fun.

So this blog post will cover:

• Interesting tease and denial techniques to drive your chastity slave to the brink of insanity
• Cum control ideas from edging him to things that are a little more cruel
• Erotic teasing and foreplay to spice things up in the bedroom

Let’s get started 🙂

Reading Your Partner’s Body Language

One of the best ways to get better at tease and denial is learning to read your partner’s body.

Now that obviously comes with experience.

So in the beginning, you can have him tell you when he is close to cumming or about to cum. After a few edging sessions, you’ll soon learn all of his “tells” kind of like in poker.

Learn how his body twitches when he’s about close. Does he breathe heavier?

Do his legs start shaking? Do you see him bite his lip when he’s about to bust his load?

When you can read his body like that it’s kind of like reading his mind, which makes the experience so much more intense.

P.S. don’t forget to remind him that he is not allowed to cum without your permission!

Tease And Denial Tip: Toy With His Senses

The best tease and denial technique I have to share with you is to use all of your slave’s/sub’s senses when teasing him.

Playing with each of his senses makes things a lot more intense.

Here are some tease and denial tips for each sense:

Sight: blindfold him by putting your panties over his face. Taking away his sight makes the other senses so much more intense.

Touch: scratch him, bite him, lick his skin softly, breathe on his face…change up the sensations that you deliver something unique when toying with your slave.

Taste: have your slave suck your toes or fingers, taste your pussy, taste your lips, etc. And as always, my favorite is to spit in his mouth!

Sound: Whisper dirty things into his ear…moan for him! Sound is one of the most underrated ways to tease your sub!

Smell: Does your sub have a foot fetish? Make him smell your feet! But you can also have him smell your damp panties as well. And don’t forget putting on a sexy perfume is also a great way to get his attention.

Use Your Entire Body To Deny His Orgasms

So, how should you edge your chastity slave and control his orgasms?

Well, there are a lot of techniques you can use, which makes it so much fun.

For example, you can use your:

• feet
• hands
• mouth/lips
• and even your legs!

The possibilities are pretty much endless.

With your feet, use your toes to tease the glans of his cock. You can even pinch them between your big toe and second toe. Also, you can use your soles as well to tease and deny him.

With your hands, you can use your nails to lightly scratch him. Play with the hand and roll your palm around his head.

With your lips/mouth, give him a long teasing blowjob. Alternate between slow and fast to change up the sensations for him. You can even use your teeth to bite him very softly.

Finally, you can even use your legs to tease him.

For example, you can wrap your thighs around his cock and order him to fuck your legs.

Learn To Tie Him Up (Bondage Play)

Another fun thing to incorporate into your tease and denial games is to tie up your slave husband/boyfriend.

Why?

Well because it makes the tease and denial session so much more intense when he can’t do anything. It really accentuates the whole power exchange thing.

Besides, sometimes you want him completely still and at your mercy. This way he can’t fight back while you edge him over and over again while denying him.

After all, cum control is the name of the game!

So learn to tie a few knots so you can have him fully secure when you begin your long tease and denial session!

Incorporate Sex Toys With Your Tease and Denial Play

If you want to improve your tease and denial technique, one thing you can easily do is incorporate toys into your relationship.

Things like little vibrators, magic wands, or even fake pussies/penis sleaves can be used to greatly tease your chastity cuck.

I find that even expertly using a vibrator can have your slave trembling with frustration.

So use more sex toys during your tease and denial sessions and you’ll REALLY bring him to his knees!

One of my favorite things to do is playing with his head with a powerful vibrator. This is the most sensitive part of his penis so using a vibrator and gliding it around his head will drive him crazy and make him leak a lot.

Remember to frequently take off the vibrator to let him “cool down a bit”. After all, we don’t want him to bust his load too soon!

And be sure to tease him and make him beg you to use the vibrator to bring back the pleasure.

A few rounds of this and he’ll be like silly putty in your hands!

Play Red Light Green Light For The Ultimate Orgasm Denial

One of my favorite tease and denial games is to play red light green light.

It’s a pretty simple game. Basically, when you say green light, your cuckold slave may stroke his dick. And when you say red light, he must stop at once (or suffer the consequences).

What’s fun about this game is you can allow him to stroke as much or as little as you want.

And the constant starting and stopping will really frustrate him beyond comprehension!

That’s why this is one of my favorite tease and denial ideas.

Use Remote Toys For Erotic Teasing

Another fun tease and denial game is to use remote control toys to tease and torment your slave.

These are great toys to use not only around the house, but out in public! If public humiliation or public play is your thing, then a remote control toy is just what you need.

My favorite toy is a remote control butt plug. This allows you to control your cuck’s vibrations anywhere, anytime.

A few presses of a button and the little toy will deliver pleasure to him. And with the push of a button again, it will come to a stop.

Imagine using this on your sub/slave at the restaurant or while watching a movie at the theater.

Using this to tease and deny your slave is so much fun!

Send Him Dirty Messages (Dirty Talk)

One of my favorite tease and denial techniques is to use your slave’s imagination.

After all, it’s called getting mindfucked, right? 🙂

So here’s what you are going to do…

That’s why one of my favorite things to do is to send dirty text messages or voice messages to your cuck while he’s locked in chastity.

For example, you can say thing like:

• Guess what I have waiting for you at home?
• I saw that you left the toilet seat up. I’m going to punish you after work!
• I bought a new chastity cage for you today. Can you guess which one I got?

The beauty of this tease and denial technique is you don’t really tell him what it is you’re going to do. You make his mind wander and he sort of “tortures” himself.

Edging Games In Chastity

Okay, this has to be my favorite tease and denial technique because it’s just so cruel!

One of my favorite things is to edge a chastity cuck while he’s locked in chastity.

There’s so many things you can do from using your fingers, nails, feet, tongue, and more!

Edge him in his cage until he’s leaking.

Then leave him there or make him take a cold shower to cool down. Be sure to use lots of oil/lube so you can really tease his skin.

Tease And Denial Techniques For Your FLR – Final Thoughts

Overall, tease and denial should play a big role in your wife led marriage. It’s great for foreplay and really brings back the excitement in your sex life.

Hopefully this tease and denial guide will be helpful for your relationship.

So readers, which idea did you like the most? And do you have a special tease and denial technique you want to share?

Let me know in the comments