Ready to start experimenting with cuckolding in your marriage? Well, here are some cuckold tips to help you out!
Cuckolding is incredibly exciting, but at the same time it can be scary exploring unknown waters.
That’s why I wrote this blog post to help out new couples exploring this amazing new sex life and potential lifestyle.
This blog post will cover:
- Tips for your cuckold marriage
- How to communicate properly with your partner
- Safety precautions to take when hotwifing
Ready to begin your new kinky lifestyle? 🙂
Contents
- 1. Be Honest & Set Expectations With Your Partner
- 2. NEVER Be Afraid To Experiment
- 3. Take Safety Precautions
- 4. Picking A Bull Is Very Important
- 5. Decide If A Chastity Cage Is Necessary
- 6. Share Texts Regularly & Tease
- 7. Go On Shopping Sprees
- 8. Plan “Cuckold Getaways” Together
- 9. Use Your Cuckold As A Sober Driver
- 10. Have Your Cuckold Serve Your Bull
1. Be Honest & Set Expectations With Your Partner
This is probably the most important cuckolding tip on this list.
If you want to go on the cuckolding journey with your partner, you need to be clear with what you (BOTH of you) want.
Now, just because you want something now, doesn’t mean things can’t change in the future.
For example, let’s say you’ll only use condoms when cuckolding, that’s fine (and smart).
But if in the future you find a stable bull that you want to use more often, then going bareback may be something you want to try.
The point of talking about this is to ensure that both partners are very clear on what to expect and what lines not to cross when it comes to cuckolding.
Cuckolding can be very intense and create a lot of emotions. As a result, you want to communicate regularly with each other.
Develop a system where you talk to each other about how your cuckold lifestyle is evolving at least once a week.
2. NEVER Be Afraid To Experiment
Don’t be afraid to try new things with your partner.
Not only is it healthy, but it’s also a lot of fun and can be spontaneous.
Always be willing to try a kink/fetish at least once.
Even if you don’t like it, you will at least know that! And being with someone who is very adventurous with their sexual side is a lot of fun.
No Negative Nancies here!
3. Take Safety Precautions
When it comes to cuckolding, you need to take safety precautions.
And I’m not just talking about STDs here.
Before you meet anyone, you should screen them.
Has the bull played with other couples or have references? If so, follow up on that and talk with the other couples.
If your wife/girlfriend is going on a blind date with someone (or even a Tinder date), make sure she keeps in contact with you on a regular basis while out.
You can even have her turn on tracking on her phone.
There are a lot of crazy people out there so be vigilant.
4. Picking A Bull Is Very Important
As I have written about before, picking a bull (or bulls) for your hotwife marriage is super important.
A bull is the third stool that makes this lifestyle so much fun.
Not only do you want to have someone who is great in the bedroom, but there has to be great chemistry between the three of you.
As a result, a bad bull can make the experience miserable. While a great bull can really elevate your marriage.
Don’t ignore this cuckold tip and just sleep with anyone you want. You need chemistry to make this work!
5. Decide If A Chastity Cage Is Necessary
Cuckolding and chastity go hand in hand.
Now, I’m not saying all cuckolds need to be locked in chastity. And I’m not saying all men locked in chastity are cuckolds.
However, being locked in chastity definitely makes the cuckold experience a lot more intense and fun.
Why?
Well, you can incorporate erotic humiliation, small penis humiliation (DPH), denial, and edging with your partner.
I would say, the best part would definitely be the erotic humiliation part.
Another cuckold tip for your cuckold marriage is to share text messages with your partner on a regular basis.
And you can go about this in a number of ways.
For example, share some screen shots of the sexy back and forth text messages with your bulls, tinder dates, etc.
Also, while you are out on dates with bulls, share some pictures of the scene with your partner to really get him involved.
And of course, send him some naughty homemade porn when you fuck your bulls!
Throw in some dirty talk as well, to really tease him…
7. Go On Shopping Sprees
One of my favorite cuckolding tips is to regularly go on shopping sessions with your partner.
Why?
Well, helping her pick out lingerie and dresses for hot dates is so much fun!
Isn’t it great knowing how much another man will be enjoying your wife with your hard spent money?
Do this at least once a month (or maybe more depending on your budget). It’s seriously a lot of fun.
8. Plan “Cuckold Getaways” Together
Another tip I have for newly minted cuckold couples it to plan getaways together (with the bull).
This can be a lot of fun.
For example, you can go to a nudist resort or even have a staycation at a fancy hotel and fuck all weekend long.
The possibilities are endless.
A getaway is a great time to really let loose, experiment, and have fun.
It really helps de-stress from all the stuff you have to deal with in daily life.
9. Use Your Cuckold As A Sober Driver
As I have often written on Twitter, a cuckold is a VERY useful and versatile tool.
For example, you can use him as a footstool or a cum rag to clean up after sex.
But I would say one of the most useful ways to make your man useful is to be a sober driver on dates!
After all, why waste money on Uber when it is also much more fun to have your cucky drive you and your bull on hot dates.
That way you can tease him and always have him on standby to serve.
10. Have Your Cuckold Serve Your Bull
Another great cuckold tip is to have your hubby serve your bull.
This plays into the erotic humiliation aspect of it.
For example, you can make your cuckold wash your bull’s car, buy him a gift, and so much more!
And one of my favorites is telling your cuckold to do his dry cleaning so you can go on a hot date together 🙂
It’s seriously a lot of fun if your hubby/boyfriend is into humiliation.
Cuckold Tips For Your Marriage – Final Thoughts
Overall, cuckolding is something exciting and I think it should be enjoyed by more couples out there.
Hopefully these tips will be useful for your female led relationship.
So readers, which tip do you find the most useful? And do you think I missed anything?
Let me know in the comments!
Steve says
I’ve been trying to get my wife to try cuckolding but she’s not interested so I’ve been thinking trying it with another woman as my wife hasn’t been interested in sex with me since February 2007 I’d be the cuck
William says
Same problem as Steve, basically begging my wife to try it. I know sex will be good for her and the excitement for me of just getting a photo would get my heart pounding as well.