I find that handjob torture and edging is a great way to give your slave/sub blue balls. Obviously there are MANY ways to tease and deny your sub.
However, your hands/fingers are extremely dexterous (way more than your feet or mouth/lips). As a result, you can deliver more intense sensations.
That’s why I’m a big fan of “handjob torture” as a reward for your sub…
This blog post will cover:
- Ruined handjob ideas to deny your slave any pleasure
- Edging techniques to give him blue balls
- Handjob post orgasm torture (POT) ideas to “punish” your sub
So…let’s talk about how to use your hands on your sub 🙂
Contents
1. Palm His Head
The best way to do handjob torture on your slave is to give him a ruined orgasm!
My favorite way to do this is the palm technique.
How does it work?
Basically after he cums, take all the cum and put it into the palm of your hand. Hold his dick up with your other hand and use your palm and his cum as lube to rub his head.
Basically run your palm in a big circle around his glans (which will be super sensitive after orgasm).
This will give him an incredibly strong tickling sensation in his head!
P.S. you may want to tie him down because he will be squirming A LOT from this.
2. Use Your Nails On Him!
Another fun handjob torture technique I highly recommend is using your nails.
Use it during edging sessions when you think he is close to orgasm.
Why?
Well, using your nails on his head will remove 99% of stimulation. But in case he is super close, your nails may drive him over the edge to a ruined orgasm!
If not, it will remove enough stimulation for him to “cool down” for you to edge him some more.
Either way, it’s a win-win scenario in my book!
One fun technique is to use your nail (very) lightly against his peehole. It’s probably an unfamiliar sensation for him, which will be great!
3. Squeeze It All Out
You know how some people always squeeze the last drop out of the tooth paste carton?
Well, it’s the same idea here!
When your slave cums, grab him by the balls and squeeze them firmly (not too hard though), while continuing to jerk.
Get every last drop of cum out of those balls! After all, there’s no reason to lose any of that goodness, right?
And make sure he cleans up the mess too hehe.
4. Remove ALL Stimulation
The next handjob torture idea is to give your sub a ruined orgasm!
A ruined orgasm is incredibly frustrating as all his pent up frustration kind of just dribbles out of his manhood.
So, what’s the best way to give him a ruined handjob?
Well, I find that removing all stimulation at the last second is the best and most fun way to do this.
If you do this properly, he will twitch in the air for a few seconds before exploding (or leaking out).
This is one of the most fun things to achieve as a domme as the orgasm is SUPER frustrating.
Now, you don’t want to bring him over the edge and then remove stimulation. You want to do it BEFORE he blows his load (i.e. removing the stimulation).
So you might have to “start and stop” a few times until you can get the timing just right…
It comes with practice, but eventually you will be able to sense when he will be close.
5. Play Red Light Green Light
This next handjob edging idea is a ton of fun…
Basically, I want you to play red light green light with your sub.
When it’s green light, you allow him to stroke and when it’s red light, he will not be allowed to stroke.
Doing this back and forth for a bit will edge him and get him super horny and weak for you.
Try it and see what happens. You may even inadvertently give him a ruined orgasm when you call red light!
Now, there are many things you can do to make this game even more fun.
For example, you can have him wear ball weights or a ball clamp to make the experience more uncomfortable.
Or you can make him play this game while he is kneeling over rice (which is quite painful!).
6. Sit On His Face
Another fun idea for your relationship is to sit on your sub’s face while giving him a handjob.
Not only does this take away his sight (so he can’t see what you’re doing to him), but also incentivizes him to eat you out so he can cum (but you won’t be doing that tonight).
Edging him like this is probably one of the most torturous ways you can do it!
It’s hard to believe he won’t have blue balls after this…
The best part about this is your scent will be on his face for hours. Imagine sending him to work after this with your pussy juices all over his face.
7. How Many Orgasms?
I talked about ruined orgasms before, but giving your slave multiple orgasms in a row is also a super fun idea!
Think of it like post orgasm torture…
See how many times you can “milk” him in X amount of time.
For example, how many times can you humanly milk him in 10 minutes?
2 times? Maybe 3 times? Maybe even more?
Let’s give it a try and find out…
By the end, he will be begging for sweet mercy!
8. Use Numbing Cream For Some “Fun”
If you have followed my blog, you will know that I am a BIG fan of using numbing cream to tease your slave/sub.
After all, it’s super cheap and should be readily available at your local pharmacy.
The idea is to use some numbing cream on your slave’s cock and balls BEFORE giving him a handjob.
This will numb his senses a lot so even though you are touching him sensually, he won’t be able to fully enjoy the treatment.
Talk about “sweet torture”, right? 🙂
Handjob Torture Ideas – Final Thoughts
Overall, using your hands to tease and torture your slave is incredibly fun.
You can do SO many things to drive him crazy.
Hopefully this list gave you some great ideas for your next kinky weekend.
P.S. which idea from this list do you want to try the most? Let me know in the comments!