Want to groom your partner into the perfect submissive? Well, you need to begin his submissive husband training right away!
No matter if he’s been a submissive for you for a week or 10 years, there’s always something he can learn to do better.
This blog post will cover:
- Submissive husband training ideas
- Skills that he should learn
- How to reward and punish your slave hubby during his training
Alright, let’s delve into his training regimen 🙂
Contents
1. Suck Cock
If you want to train your husband to be submissive, one of the first things you need to do is make him suck cock for you!
Buy a big strapon or a dildo and have him practice.
There’s nothing more fun than coming home after a long day of work and making your submissive hubby suck cock for you!
Seriously, it’s such a good stress reliver. Plus, making him suck cock will really reinforce who is in charge in this relationship.
Get him started right away 🙂
2. Anal Training
Aside from sucking cock, you also need to begin your submissive husband’s anal training.
After all, all of his holes should be used for your amusement.
Anal training will reprogram his brain to be even more submissive.
Instead of the one who fucks, he will be the one who gets fucked!
Start off easy with some small vibrators and dildos before working your way up. Before long, he’ll be begging on his knees to get pegged by you with the big strapon!
Oh and make sure he thanks you every time he gets fucked.
3. Make Sure He Addresses You Properly
Part of your submissive husband’s training should also include addressing you the proper way.
What do I mean by this?
Well, he should start calling you Queen or Mistress or Goddess. This helps him put you on a pedestal (where you rightfully belong).
It also helps reinforce the power exchange dynamics of the female led relationship where you are in charge.
In addition, he should also learn some basic slave/submissive etiquette like bowing before you.
For example, when you come home from work, he should already be on his knees ready to greet you behind the door.
If you are looking for more submissive kneeling ideas like this, check out this blog post.
4. CFNM Fun
CFNM stands for clothed female(s), naked male(s).
It’s basically a situation where the male is naked while the female is fully clothed.
The idea behind this is you want to reinforce the fact that males are inferior and thus they should be naked and at the mercy of women.
This should be the ideal situation at home.
Your subby hubby will be locked in chastity and fully naked, while you are fully clothed. After all, why should he get to enjoy staring at your naked body? 🙂
And or some men, this is also an act of erotic humiliation, which is just another reason to do it!
5. Lock Him In Chastity
Locking your husband in chastity is a great way to INSTANTLY make him more submissive!
When you take away his manhood, you transform him into a dotting slave for you.
Your needs become his needs and so on.
It is truly a wonderful thing to see
When he knows you control his cock…when he gets to stroke, when he gets to cum, and when he gets pleasure, it turns the power dynamics of the whole relationship around.
And you don’t need to practice long-term chastity for this to be an effective part of his submissive husband training.
Even a few hours of chastity on the weekends can be super fun and make him MUCH more submissive for you.
6. Make Him Run Errands & Chores
Having your cuck run errands and chores is also a great way to further his submissive training.
After all, why should you bother yourself with such trivial things? 🙂
Plus, having him run errands for you teaches him the value of hard work, serving, and performing to your high expectations.
So what can you have him do?
Well, you can send him to buy groceries, pick up the dry cleaning, or do chores around the house like dishes, taking out the garbage, etc.
It’s all about making him serve!
Just one of the perks of having a submissive hubby, right? 🙂
Punishments & Rewards For Your Submissive Hubby
Rewards and punishments are important to teach your cuck when he has misbehaved and when he has done something good.
Keep a good list of rewards and punishments you can dole out whenever you deem it necessary.
For example, punishments can include things like:
- Extra days, weeks…or MONTHS in chastity
- A humiliating task
- Take away his porn privileges
- Make him wear the chastity cage for another day (or another week!)
- Making him wash his mouth with soap
- Have him sleep in a dog cage
Examples of rewards could be things like:
- A ruined orgasm
- Eating your pussy
- Smelling your dirty panties and/or socks
- Allowing him to fuck a fake pussy
- Letting him out of the chastity cage for 10 minutes
- Give him a chastity blowjob
- Edge him for 20 minutes
Submissive Husband Training Ideas – Final Thoughts
Overall, training your submissive husband is one of the best ways to re-ignite the kinky fun in your relationship.
As you can see, there are many fun ways to tease, torment, and mind fuck your partner throughout this whole process!
Anyways, hope these ideas will be helpful for your relationship.
Let me know which ideas were your favorite or if you have anything to add!
Peter says
Excelent post Mistress.
I’d like to add another idea that my Queen has done while training me. She had replaced all my underwear by sexy panties, the first time she put me in panties already made me feel so inferior and submissive to her.
csBill732 says
My Owner (Wife) has had it (me) wear sexy panties every day for years. It’s nearly impossible to be gurly and a male…it’ll always choose to be gurly and emulate the Superior Sex..
Sergio says
Hi. My owner has granted me permission to post this. I have been in permanent chastity for 6 years. My Mistress holds the keys. I am not allowed to cum. Never. However, Mistress occasionally grants me edging, but no cum. I no longer wish to cum. My Mistress does not like her property to cum. Recently, my Mistress required me to cum for some friends she brought over. It took a bit of effort but I did. I told Mistress it was awful to cum, and in her kindness, informed me that she would never allow it again anyway. I was so relieved. Edging is so much more sexy and last much longer than cumming. So now she only edges me like before. I love it and love her promise of never allowing it again. I love my Mistress and Mistress knows better anyway.
Andy says
My wife supervises me when she unlocks my chastity cage to allow everything to be cleaned, then replaced. She initially placed me in chastity to prevent me playing with myself when she goes and sees her lover. She used to remove the cage, upon her return home, tell me what they had done together and give me a handjob. This has gradually changed to her keeping me locked up for at least four weeks. When I am released, she gives me two minutes to cum on her breasts, or over the knickers she is wearing, then make me lick up my own cum. If I can’t cum in two minutes, then I am locked up again. She wants to train me to be a quick cummer, cutting down the ti e I am allowed. I would be completely useless, a small cock, rarely gets hard, and cums almost straight away, a complete contrast to her skilled lover. As I am not allowed pussy, my wife says she is going to buy me a rubber doll, and film me cumming in it in under 60 seconds, film me and show it to her lover and selected friends. I can’t wait