Are you interested in becoming a cuck, but still a little nervous?
Maybe you are embarrassed about it…
Or maybe you are interested in learning more about the cuckold lifestyle.
Well, this blog post will answer all of your questions and cover:
- What you’ll experience when you become a cuckold
- A glimpse at the cuckold lifestyle for both you and your wife (hotwife)
- The emotional and physical aspects of a cuckold relationship/marriage
Let’s get started 🙂
Contents
Understand That Cuckolding Is Normal
Becoming a cuckold is becoming more and more mainstream by the day.
In fact, I think Adam22 brought a lot of attention to the cuckold and kink lifestyle from people who had never been exposed to it in the past.
Anyways, the point is there is nothing wrong with becoming a cuckold at all – despite the humiliation that you might feel.
It is perfectly normal to want to be one, especially if you have always been submissive your entire life.
Plus, there’s just something quite beautiful knowing your wife is getting pleased by other men. It’s truly a blessing and nothing to be ashamed of AT ALL.
She Still Loves You (Her Cucky)
When you become a cuckold, one thing you must understand is that your wife still loves you and cares for you a ton.
She may be with other men for a night (or two), but it’s just about the sex and pleasure. There are no emotional feelings of love for him.
It can be hard to separate those two things in your head at first, but you’ll soon realize that she still loves you.
That’s why it’s important for cuckold couples to still go on dates regularly and normal couple things. It’s very healthy for the relationship.
You May Become Submissive Throughout Your Life
If you weren’t already submissive in your vanilla life, then you might become more submissive now!
For some men, after being cuckolded, they become submissive in all aspects of their life.
It may start at work when you allow co-workers to take advantage of you
…or at the grocery store when you don’t say anything when someone cuts you in line.
Becoming more submissive in your life isn’t a bad thing though.
You can focus on serving your wife and her lovers and her girlfriends more diligently.
You May Be Locked In Chastity
Another thing that may happen when you become a cuckold is being locked in chastity.
As I have always said, chastity and cuckolding go hand in hand. Why?
Well, because denying a cuckold is rightfully part of the process. It’s just who you become.
And if you aren’t using your “dick” to please your wife, why shouldn’t it be locked up?
Plus, being locked in chastity will make you much more submissive and easier for your wife/girlfriend to control.
Accept the frustration that comes with chastity and you’ll be happy.
You May Have Cleanup Duties
Another thing that may arise when you become a cuckold is cleanup duties.
And this doesn’t just mean cleaning up creampies…
Although that is one of the joys of being a cuckold: cleaning up your wife after other men have cum in her!
You’ll also have other cleanup duties.
For example, you might be cleaning up the house before your wife has a sex dick appointment, changing the sheets after sex, and many other chores.
It’ll be so much fun serving your wife/girlfriend like this!
Plan Dates For Your Hotwife
Another thing that may happen when you become a cuckold is being asked to help plan for dates or help with date related things.
For example, you can help your wife/girlfriend research restaurants or hotels/resorts she may want to visit with her lover.
You can also pick up dry cleaning or flowers or gifts for your wife’s lovers.
How great would that be?
Being a little cucky errand boy is something you should get used to.
After all, you are there for HER pleasure
You Are Expected To Buy Her Nice Things
As a cuckold, you may be asked to buy your wife nice things.
Maybe she wants a new lingerie set for a hot date.
Or maybe she wants a sexy new dress for a hot date with a young black stud.
Well, guess who will be buying it for her…you of course!
One of the great ways to serve your wife as a cuckold is to buy her nice things for other men to enjoy…
This will become your new love language.
She May Spend Time Away From You
Another thing you may notice with your hotwife is that she may spend less time with you when you become a cuckold.
This is natural as she’ll be other men – on dates, riding their cocks, etc.
And if you have kids, the limited time she has with you will be cut down.
However, you must remember that she still loves you (as I mentioned before).
It’s natural and something you should accept.
But this is why it’s also important to reserve time with each other to do normal things (getting dinner, coffee, dates, etc).
Becoming A Cuckold: My Final Thoughts
Overall, becoming a cuckold is a big step in your relationship/marriage.
It’s something that you should seriously consider and experiment around with before diving deep.
Hopefully this blog post gives you confidence in taking the next step to become a cuckold for your wife/girlfriend!
P.S. how did your life change when you became a cuckold? Let me know in the comments!
Martha says
Cuckold ing is not normal! I say after just buying her shoes for a dinner date she is having with a new gentleman. She kissed me and said “sissy it’s just dinner”
There is nothing normal about kissing each shoe and watching her walk down the driveway to the awaiting Lincoln. Then doing the assigned chores while she is out.
There is nothing normal about getting her bedroom ready for a guest just in case she invites him in.
There is nothing normal about kissing each shoe top in greeting when she comes in.
There is nothing normal about her telling you how pretty you are in the dress you have on, and thanking her for that.
Cuckold ing is not normal, but it is my life.
John says
As it should be.
Peter says
As we were going deeper in the cuckolding lifestyle, our life has been changing in various aspects. The most important is that the wife becomes the focus of every decision and it’s normal the relationship turns into a Female Led Relationship (FLR) as well. As a cuckold, I learned to have my pleasure by supporting and watching my wife’s and her Bulls’ pleasure. It’s very satisfying when you’re not selfish and let your wife live pleasures you wouldn’t be able to provide. It’s very satisfying to live this moment with her, shopping clothes and lingerie with her, helping her to prepare for her date, to know she received compliments from her bulls, that they have enjoyed the moment and your wife gave them a good time too.
Rodrigues says
In fact, cuckold is natural! Every consensual relationship within a marriage is normal.
For a submissive husband and a dominant wife, cuckolding is not only normal, but it can be the ideal arrangement for the couple.
I kiss my wife’s shoes because this give me a lot of pleasure and she likes too.
She has had sexual relations with other men and I am completely faithful to her and these actions have given us both great pleasure and excitement.
I saw photos of her with other men and I loved seeing those photos.
For both of us, this is a perfect arrangement and it comes very naturally to us.
I believe that a couple’s life is natural if both are happy and it is unnatural if one or both are unhappy.