Self chastity can be very hard for a lot of people because it requires A LOT of self control.
Obviously, when you don’t have a keyholder, there’s no one to push you.
There’s no one to say no to you when you want to come out or have an orgasm.
But don’t worry, that’s why I wrote this blog post…
This blog post will discuss 7 super fun and great self chastity ideas to keep you locked up for longer.
Think you can handle the ideas? Only one way to find out 🙂
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The Key To Self Chastity
When it comes to self chastity, the key to being able to stay longer is making it difficult to retrieve your chastity key.
This can be accomplished through a number of ways, including:
- Making it tedious to get your key back (like putting it in a safety deposit box in a city 45 minutes away)
- Taking control of the key out of your hands (like giving it to a friend or mailing it to yourself
The list of ideas I’m going to share focus mainly on these two concepts.
1. Hide Your Chastity Key
Go to a retail store near your house. It can be a grocery store, a pharmacy, or even a pet store.
Find a safe place to hide your key…a place where no one will look.
And no, the bathroom or employee break room doesn’t count. It has to be on the actual retail floor where customers come and go.
Leave the key there and come back in 2 – 3 days to retrieve the key.
The great thing about this idea is that someone may find the key before you come back! Or it can be moved accidentally…
If you don’t want to risk it at a public location like this, leaving the key at a friend’s house can be an alternative.
2. Freeze Your Chastity Key
One of the best methods of self custody of your chastity key is to freeze it in a plastic bottle.
Fill the bottle halfway, lay it on the side and then wait for the water to freeze in the fridge. After that, place the chastity key in the middle, fill it all the way up, and then freeze it again.
The beauty of this is that when you want to be unlocked from chastity, you’ll have to let the ice melt first.
This way, you can “talk” yourself out of making a horrible decision!
3. Duplicate Keys
As I mentioned before, one of the best ways to ensure you are locked while practicing self chastity is to make it as tedious as possible to get unlocked.
And one fun way to do this is to buy 30 – 40 keys that are very similar to your key. Don’t worry, it’s not super expensive – you can literally buy a bag of keys from Amazon for around $15 – $20.
Next, mix all of the keys together so you don’t know which one is the correct one.
That’s only step one though…
Step two is to randomly place the look-a-like keys throughout your home. Put some in the bathroom, put some in the kitchen, in the bedroom, in the living room, etc.
Now, when you want to be unlocked, you’ll have to search throughout the house and find the correct one.
It may take a few hours…or even a few days if you misplaced the key!
4. Mail The Key To Yourself
Mailing the key to yourself is a great way to ensure you stay locked in chastity for a few days.
This is a great idea if you are a beginner to the world of chastity and submission.
The beauty of this idea is that it puts you at complete mercy of the postal company.
No matter what you do or how horny you get, you will not be able to get out early!
This idea is even better if you live near a border town (i.e. close to another country).
Just step across the border and visit the foreign country’s post office and mail your key back across the border.
It’ll take longer than normal compared to domestic mail because it has to go through customs, so you’ll be locked even longer!
5. Bury The Chastity Key
A really tedious idea to get your chastity key back is to put it under the ground!
Go to your backyard and dig out a hole for a small shoe box. Make sure the hole is at least 3 feet deep. Then put the key into the box and place it into the hole and cover it up.
Now, whenever you want to get out of chastity, you’ll have to go dig it back up. It’s really tiresome to do that, so you better make sure you have the energy to do it!
6. Go To A Strip Club
For a solo chastity challenge, going to the strip club has got to be one of the best self inflicted teases.
Go to your local strip club and order a sexy dance (or two) from a girl you fancy. Let her tease and torment you while you ache and try to “get hard” in the cage!
If there’s a good connection between the two of you, ask if she wants to hold your chastity key for a few days before you come back and buy another dance with her.
If not, no hard feelings – at least you got a good tease!
Also, be sure to tip well once you pay for the dance.
7. Ask Someone To Check Your Mail
Go on a fun road trip or a staycation (i.e. a camping trip or fishing trip or hiking trip or just staying in the city) while locked in chastity.
Meanwhile, tell a friend to please check your mail at your PO box where you will put the key in an envelope.
When you come back from your little trip, ask for your mail back to be unlocked.
This ensures you won’t be tempted for an early release!
Final Thoughts
While self chastity can be “hard” (pun intended) at times, it can also be very fun if you challenge yourself.
Hopefully these self chastity ideas help you experience the thrill and joy of submission.
So, which idea is your favorite and the one you want to try the most?
Let me know in the comments!
Jess says
Instead of Strip club, go to a thai massage.
Here you please several points.
CFNM
Tease and denial
Showing your cage in public
Most thais offer happy end, which you can’t get.
But you get a good massage at least.
And a big humiliation of u in the cage.