I’ve always been a big fan of public chastity ideas to tease & torment your sub.
There’s just something sexy about making your sub aware that you own him and just because he’s in public doesn’t mean he’s safe from your wrath!
Plus, it’s a great way to push his kinky boundaries a little.
This blog post will share:
- Ideas to tease your chastity slave in public
- Little femdom tasks to give him
- And tormenting ideas to make him squirm
Ready to give him blue balls in public?
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1. Tease Him Under The Table
I’ve always thought that public teasing and foreplay was a great idea to try with your partner.
After all, there’s nothing like coming home ready to rip off each other’s clothes after some teasing under the table at the restaurant or in the dark corner of the movie theater.
So, next time you are out together, tease your sub under the table.
Play footsie and try to get him hard inside his itty bitty cage.
Even better if you’re at a table in a restaurant with a long table cloth! This way, you can tease him in front of everyone without people actually knowing what is going on…
Alternatively, you can always go old school and place a jacket over his crotch to tease him endlessly 🙂
2. Send Him To The Bathroom For A Chastity Spot Check
Just because your slave is out in public doesn’t mean he’s immune to chastity spot checks!
When you’re out with your slave, order him to go into a public restroom to take some videos/photos for you.
It’s a simple task, but it certainly reaffirms the fact that you completely own him!
Even better if you do this at a busy pub or restaurant where there’s a long line for the bathroom stall!
3. Deny Your Slave Bathroom Privileges
When you’re out in public with your slave, order him to drink a lot of fluids.
Why?
Well, you want all the fluids to be processed by his body so he has to use the bathroom!
Ideally, you would make him drink something he doesn’t like…
For example, if he doesn’t like strawberry lemonade, make him drink a ton of that.
Alternatively, beer is also a great choice as people typically have to pee A LOT even after a glass or two of beer 🙂
When he inevitably begs to use the bathroom (and yes, he should ask for permission), you will deny him to keep things fun.
When you finally give him permission to pee, order him to use a urinal, not a bathroom stall!
4. Use A Remote Control Butt Plug
A remote control butt plug or anal toy is an incredible way to tease your slave in public.
With the push of a button, he’ll feel the vibrations emanating from his ass.
Let’s hope you are in a noisy spot like a bar or restaurant so no one can hear his ass vibrating against the seat!
The beauty of this is you can keep him on his toes at all times in public.
It doesn’t matter what he’s doing, you can control his pleasure any time you want!
Who knows, if he’s been locked long enough in chastity, he might be able to have an orgasm!
Now how would he explain the wet spot on his pants? 🙂
5. Wearing His Chastity Key In Public
Wearing a chastity key (i.e. on a necklace) in public is one of my favorite ideas to mind fuck your slave.
For 99% of people, it will just be a unique necklace, but for the few who recognize it, it will be a reminder that women are superior.
It will be a symbol of his eternal servitude and obedience towards you.
Plus, I’m sure it’ll be pure sweet torture seeing the key to his freedom out in the open like that…
6. Shopping & Groping
Whenever you go out in public with your slave, try to touch his “hardon” to get him hard in his cage.
For example, if you’re sitting in the metro, place your jacket over his legs and rub him a few times to surprise him and get him frustrated.
Or if you’re in a tight space (like waiting in a line), rub your ass against his caged crotch and watch him squirm!
Doing little things like this to get him horny in public is a great idea!
7. Go Lingerie Shopping
Another fun thing is to take your slave shopping with you for lingerie…say at Victoria’s Secret.
While you’re busy spending his money, try on some sexy lingerie and send him some naughty photos from the fitting room.
Let’s see how hard he gets waiting for you to swipe his card!
Let him know that you’ll be teasing him with that new lingerie once you get home…
8. Send Him Sexy Messages
I’m always a big fan of foreplay and sexting. Which is why I LOVE this next idea: send your chastity slave some sexy messages while out in public together.
Maybe you’re meeting with some friends or family, so you can’t talk directly with each other.
So, you’ll be sending him naughty messages about what you’re going to do to him when you get home.
For example, send him sexy messages like:
- “I can’t wait to peg you in your cage tonight?”
- “I’m going to edge you 3 times or until you beg for mercy.”
- “How bad do you want to lick my pussy right now?”
- “My feet are so sweaty. You’re going to be licking them later tonight.”
Final Thoughts
Overall, teasing & frustrating your chastity slave in public is so much fun.
It adds a totally new dynamic to the power exchange in your relationship.
Hopefully this list gave you some great ideas to try this week!
So readers, which idea do you like the most? And what other ideas should I add to this list? Let me know in the comments!
Roger says
My wife would take me panty shopping, asking the saleslady if she thought i might look cute in these., She would rub a pair in my face and asked if they felt sexy. i always was made to carry Her purse while She shopped. It was all so humiliating and such a turn on