Need inspiration for some hotwife date ideas to try in your FLR?
Well, you’ve come to the right place!
There’s nothing like having a date night to cuckold your hubby. Everything about it is just so sexy…
Showering, putting on make up, slipping on a new dress/outfit, and all the other little details that go into preparation.
It’s the whole pageantry of it all while the nervousness builds up before the big event…
The great thing about the hotwife lifestyle is there are so many different types of date nights you can have…from booty calls, a flirty first date with a hot new stud, or a vacation hookup with one of your regular lovers.
The possibilities are truly endless!
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1. Meet A Guy At The Bar
In my humble opinion, one of the best hotwife dates is the classic meet a stranger at the local bar.
It can be a dive bar, a cocktail bar, a bar at some high end hotel or somewhere in between.
Go with your hubby and have him sit next to you (or observe from a safe distance). Dress nicely and watch as the men start hitting on you.
Scout around and see who you are interested in. Discuss a little and see what happens!
Flirt a little and exchange numbers at the end of the night if you’re interested in taking things further.
Or if you already agreed and talked about it with your cuck, take him back home (or go to his place) for some raw sex. Maybe even have your cucky film the whole thing 🙂
Almost nothing beats spontaneous sex like this with a stranger.
2. The Tinder Date
Sadly, I am old enough to remember dating before Tinder haha…
“Back in my day, you actually had to go out and…”
But a new age means new ways to find guys to fuck! So I see it as a net win 🙂
Okay, just kidding – I’m not THAT old haha!
In any case, a Tinder booty call can also be a fun way to meet someone to cuckold your partner with.
Try swiping on Tinder while your hubby is licking your pussy. If Tinder is a little “too vanilla” for you, try a more BDSM/Kink focused dating app like Feeld.
Start swiping and see if you can find someone worthy of a dick appointment.
P.S. don’t forget to have some fun with your Tinder profile description.
Something like “Looking for BBC to fuck me while my husband watches” or “If you have a big dick, DM me because my hubby wants you to fuck me” will definitely get the ball rolling!
3. The Fancy Hotwife Date
Already have a hot date lined up with a stud with a big cock?
Well, let’s do a little wining and dining before getting to desert back home…
Go out to a fancy restaurant in the city with your lover and have your cucky serve as your sober driver/chauffeur. It certainly beats having to call an Uber at the end of the night when surge prices are high!
Plus, it’s more fun when you bring your cucky to tag along.
Have him bow and kiss your lover’s shoe when greeting him.
Then, give him a show in the back seat by making out and having your lover finger you.
Have him drive to the restaurant and wait somewhere nearby. While at dinner, send your cuckold husband multiple naughty texts – occasionally updating him about how everything is going.
When you are ready to pay the bill, text your cuck and have him come in to pay the bill. Then, in the car ride home, give your lover some road head to REALLY tease your cucky!
Just make sure he focuses on the road and not looking back…
4. Home Call Dick Appointment
I always thought the idea of doing stuff at home was so convenient.
For example, having your barber/hairdresser come to you. Or having an in-house doctor visit. Or having a personal chef come in and do meal prep for you…
It’s just so convenient when you don’t have to drive anywhere!
I think you know where I’m going with this…
Invite one of your lovers over for a dick appointment (ideally you have them on speed dial).
This way, you don’t have to spend much money or time wining and dining.
You can just get into the nitty gritty sex while your cucky is locked outside. You can even have your cucky serve food/drinks after and basically use him as a slave to do your bidding.

5. The Vacation Slut
There’s nothing like being a slut while on vacation…especially in a foreign country!
You don’t know anyone and no one knows you. It’s not like going out to the bars or restaurants in your home town where everyone and their grandma knows you.
This way, you can let loose and fuck a few guys while your hubby/boyfriend watches.
So go out together, get the dating apps ready, and see who you can find that might be a match.
And who knows, maybe you’ll be coming back to this vacation spot next year – so save the contact information of everyone you have a connection with!
6. Go To A Local Kink Event
Do you live in a city where there are many local kink events? In large cities, there are usually a few gatherings a month.
These can be BDSM events, swinger parties, etc.
Go to one of these events and have a little fun. You don’t have to have sex with anyone or do anything if you don’t want to.
It’s a great way to explore different fetishes/kinks and the lifestyle in more detail. I think this is a great date idea with your cucky because you never know who you’ll meet!
7. Look For A FWB
A friends with benefit (FWB) is one of the great lovers to have in your hotwife relationship.
I sometimes like to call it “old reliable” – you know someone you can always turn to to have great sex when you’re horny, depressed, or just want to have fun.
And the great thing with having a regular FWB is that person will REALLY know what you like when it comes to sex.
He will know how you like your pussy eaten, how you like to be touched, and so on.
And who knows, maybe your FWB and your hubby will actually become friends!
8. The Old Flame
Ever had this situation?
You come back to your hometown after a while.
Maybe you’re visiting during college break. Or maybe you’re in town visiting family or something.
You go to the local grocery store or coffee shop and…suddenly you bump into your old boyfriend from high school.
Then you start talking and all the wonderful memories start coming back.
…one thing leads to another and you end up having a quickie again for old time’s sake.
Hooking up with an old ex is a great idea when it comes to cuckold your hubby.
Not only does it bring back a lot of emotions, but it can be fun to relive a moment from your past.
So if you see your old ex around, maybe invite him for some drinks to meet with you (and your cucky). See if the old spark is there and where it leads to…
Final Thoughts
Overall, there are so many different hotwife date ideas you can try with your partner. This list could literally be 20 or 30 different ideas!
So I hope this list was useful to help inspire some kinky ideas for your relationship.
What other kinky date ideas do you have?
Let me know in the comments!
Peter says
Great suggestions, many of them, like bar and Tinder flirting can be done during a vacation.
One of our best experiences was a bar flirting during a trip to Italy.
We went to a bar very close to our hotel, I kept some distance, she got a table and started drinking alone. After some eye contact, a man joined her at her table, they talked for some time and left for the hotel.
After they had sex, she explained to him she was married and that I was waiting in the bar. She asked him if he would mind meeting me there to say it was ok for me to come back, if not, there’d be no problem, she would just message me. She likes when it’s possible for me to meet the men she had sex with.
He agreed to that, met me in the bar, joined me for another drink and, in details, told me how amazing was the time he had with my wife.
Nancy says
I wanted to tell you about an experience of mine. I think of myself as a HOT WIFE as does my husband (also known as CUCKBOY). About 25 years ago I was a cheerleader for my high school. After college I moved away for a job in the bigger city. I go home two to three times a year to see relatives. I have not changed much other then a BOOB job. My tits are much bigger now. You know big city job means bigger tits. Well to get back to the story. I was a cheerleader and of course all the football players wanted to get in my pants and for most part I let them do what they wished. So, I went back about a month ago I went back home with my CUCK. We have been in the lifestyle for about 6 six years. My cuck has watched me with many men over the six years, He always exercise discretion in town due to my job and the CUCK”S. Back at the discretion component was out the window. I new this boy that was a busboy at the diner. He was always looking at me at the restaurant and he was always trying to catch a glimpse of my pussy when I was wear a skirt. He always picked up something off the floor when we were in. He now owns the diner. The CUCK and I went for dinner at the diner. I wore a short dress just to tease him. Long story now short, I teased him with my pussy that day. He walked up to us and said he always wanted to date me. I responded to him by saying: how about a date tonight. He said he was closing in 30 minutes and could I wait. I said absolutely. My husband was wearing a spandex leggings so everyone can see his small cock. I excited my Cuck so everyone could see his tiny penis as I made him walk thru the diner. Well the busboy turned cook turned owner finally closed the joint and devoted his attention to me, Remember the busboy was a zit faced boy when I was a cheerleader. He came to our booth and I had Cuck boy pull the owners cock out. OH boy! I was was shocked to see the length and girth of his manhood. He was massive. I had CUCK suck him hard and lick up and down his shaft and give his balls a ball wash. I could not wait to have him in me. after having the busboy prepped by Hubby, I hiked up my shirt and let him enter my wet pussy as I was bent over the table. I had my CUCK lick his balls as he was pounding me. I had him cum in me so that the CUCK would have dessert My CUCK ate me as the busboy blew a massive load into my open pussy. Next time I am in town we will be dining at the diner.